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How to Date Authentically

End the Dating "Game" and Find Lasting Love

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How to Date Authentically

By: Sam D Whitney
Narrated by: Sam Whitney
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Discover the dating book that finally goes deep enough to transform your results.

Dating today can feel like a strange game you never agreed to play. One moment you feel hopeful, and the next you’re staring at your phone, over analyzing, and wondering what went wrong. You keep meeting people, but something about the whole experience feels off, shallow, or exhausting.

What if the real issue isn’t who you’re dating, or even your technique, but something deeper?

In How to Date Authentically, Sam Whitney offers a simple but powerful idea: most of us are dating with the wrong goal in mind. We're trying to be “right” about love instead of learning how to be genuinely happy in it. Once you understand that shift, everything changes.

Through honest stories, clear examples, and short, practical chapters, this book will help you:

  • Identify the hidden mindset that quietly sabotages your relationships
  • Let go of the fear of “settling” so you can make calmer, wiser choices
  • Recognize your patterns without beating yourself up
  • Create better connections by being present, curious, and straightforward
  • Know what to look for in a great relationship, not just a great date

Inside, Sam introduces two very different dating worlds: the self-focused World of Right and the connection-focused World of Happy. Instead of chasing the perfect story or the perfect person, you learn how to build something real with another person.

This book is for you if:

  • You’re tired of short or confusing relationships that go nowhere
  • You want to feel seen and valued, not evaluated or graded
  • You’re willing to look at yourself with honesty and hope
  • You want to stop overthinking every text and start enjoying dating again
  • You care more about a great relationship than a perfect dating “story”

If you’re ready to end the dating game, see people more clearly, and build love on a stronger foundation, this book will show you how to start.

Choose now to end the dating game and find lasting love.

©2024 Sam Whitney (P)2024 Sam Whitney
Love, Dating & Attraction Relationships Sociology Dating Game
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