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How to Be Human

The Manual

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How to Be Human

By: Ruby Wax
Narrated by: Ruby Wax, Ash Ranpura, Gelong Thubten
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Penguin presents the audiobook edition of How to be Human: The Manual written and read by Ruby Wax with Ash Ranpura and Gelong Thubten.

A three way encounter between a Monk, a neuroscientist and Ruby Wax sounds like the set up for a joke. Instead it's produced one of the most fascinating, intriguing and informative books about minds and bodies and brains and mindfulness I've ever encountered. A triangulation on what it means to be human. Utterly readable and surprisingly wise. Neil Gaiman

How to Be Human is, without exaggeration, a lifeline; wise, practical and funny, it is a handbook for those in despair. It is actually for everyone alive, for the curious, or disillusioned or muddled or just plain happy. Ruby, the Monk and the Neuroscientist are today's Magi. Joanna Lumley

With this marvellous book, Ruby Wax has confirmed her position as one of the most readable, inspirational and engaging writers in the field of human mental health, happiness and fulfilment. Stephen Fry

It took us 4 billion years to evolve to where we are now. No question, anyone reading this has won the evolutionary Hunger Games by the fact you're on all twos and not some fossil. This should make us all the happiest species alive - most of us aren't, what's gone wrong? We've started treating ourselves more like machines and less like humans. We're so used to upgrading things like our iPhones: as soon as the new one comes out, we don't think twice, we dump it. (Many people I know are now on iWife4 or iHusband8, the motto being, if it's new, it's better.)

We can't stop the future from arriving, no matter what drugs we're on. But even if nearly every part of us becomes robotic, we'll still, fingers crossed, have our minds, which, hopefully, we'll be able use for things like compassion, rather than chasing what's 'better', and if we can do that we're on the yellow brick road to happiness.

I wrote this book with a little help from a monk, who explains how the mind works, and also gives some mindfulness exercises, and a neuroscientist who explains what makes us 'us' in the brain. We answer every question you've ever had about: evolution, thoughts, emotions, the body, addictions, relationships, kids, the future and compassion. How to be Human is extremely funny, true and the only manual you'll need to help you upgrade your mind as much as you've upgraded your iPhone.

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With this marvellous book, Ruby Wax has confirmed her position as one of the most readable, inspirational and engaging writers in the field of human mental health, happiness and fulfilment.
Ruby has beautifully fused neurology and spirituality and given us a means to cope with operating both a mind and a brain. If this mental upgrade works then all other books will become defunct as we repose in bliss.
How to Be Human is, without exaggeration, a lifeline; wise, practical and funny, it is a handbook for those in despair. It is actually for everyone alive, for the curious, or disillusioned or muddled or just plain happy. Ruby, the Monk and the Neuroscientist are today's Magi.
Ruby Wax is a stitch. And this stitch can make you laugh while showing you some exceedingly useful things to heal and transform your life. What she is pointing to is way too serious to take too seriously. Seriously!
As I expected its funny and thoroughly readable but what I hadn't expected was that it would change the way I think about how I think. Remarkable work from Miss Wax
Ready to laugh and cry as you dive deeply into what it means to be human? Guiding us across evolution, from the far past into the present and even preparing us for the future, Ruby Wax and her neuroscientist and meditating monk colleagues provide us with a science-informed, practical, and humorous guide that is as hysterical as it is profound. Be prepared to feel your way into well-being with this magnificent blending of entertainment and education into the nature of our minds' thoughts, feelings, and identity as you explore and expand who really you are.
Ruby Wax has spent a lifetime trying to be human.... with this book, she's so very nearly there...
This is a present for your head and your heart. Do yourself a favour and read it, you'll love it
A guide to mindfulness that's as hilarious as it is useful (Arianna Huffington on 'A Mindfulness Guide for the Frazzled')
A wonderful book full of passion and verve (Prof. Mark Williams on 'A Mindfulness Guide for the Frazzled')
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Pretty good book! It's not highly intellectual but therefore actually easier to follow and more approachable to the average reader or the reader with ADHD who gets easily distracted therefore struggles to follow complex wording and heavy scientific jargon. (I'll go look up the word and then the Internet has me - there's no coming back!) Also, a narrator with a dynamic personality such as Ruby Wax's (yes that definitely shines through even just in audio!), holds my attention better too, despite her very STRONG American accent which I kind of found grating sometimes. Sorry! But it's definitely a voice that is easy to focus on! 😂 I also liked her little 'my story's'. I thought they were kinda cheesy at first but I quickly realized how wrong I was and that they were actually great little tid bits to help the reader relate neuroscience and mindfulness to real life examples.
It was also a great idea to have written the book the the input of both a neuroscience, and a Buddhist monk in each chapter. People might think these disciplines are worlds apart but they actually both study the same thing and both of their beliefs are based from scientific experiments. Not many people actually know what Buddhism is about but Buddha basically wanted to study consciousness so he could figure out how to end suffering and improve happiness. And the way he went about doing this was through doing neuroscience experiments/experiments with consciousness. He then wrote many books to pass on his findings to others - all 87,000 conclusions to his 87,000 hypotheses through 87,000 experiments!

Pretty good!

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I really enjoyed this book, the 3 perspectives, and strategies for mindful living and self acceptance

Great read

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gives you great insight into the human condition. makes me feel im not alone. other people suffer and have similiar emotions, thoughts and feelings

excellent book.

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If you want your life to change for the better, this book is a must read. Thank you Ruby Wax.

Fantastic book. if you want your life to change.

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Ruby Wax is a charmer, she’s sharp witted and super clever. She’s the aunt you wish you had. By weaving psychology, neuroscience and mindfulness into compelling personal stories she makes this book an all round winner.

Get onto it!

Funny, clever and insightful

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