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Publisher's Summary
The best seller that helps you say, "I just said 'no', and I don't feel guilty!"
Are you letting your kids get away with murder? Are you allowing your mother-in-law to impose her will on you? Are you embarrassed by praise or crushed by criticism? Are you having trouble coping with people?
Learn the answers in When I Say No, I Feel Guilty, the best seller with revolutionary new techniques for getting your own way.
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- Ian Townley
- 01-03-2020
awesome
loved the book and will listen to again. I found it very interesting and will share the knowledge with friends
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- Justin
- 24-04-2021
Life changing
I have used the techniques in this book in interactions with friends, family, coworkers, doctors, and many others.
I took a couple of months to finish this book in its entirety but that really allowed to sink in and I feel like I have somewhat rewired my brain Into a better style of communication
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- Dr. Chris
- 26-05-2023
Fix your frame, be assertive
For those who know, this book is on the list of required reading/listening for bettering your life.
I found the list 5 years ago and skipped this book because I was lazy. i thought, how does a book like this end up on that list? That list had books about smashing... wtf is this book about? Not saying no?
I was wrong... very very wrong.
I tell you why this book is on this list, because it showed me how to walk before I ran.
You can't have an effective MAP if you don't understand how to fog, consistently... for the rest of your life, with everyone close to you.
it also made me realize why I had a problem with dread. I wasn't actually being assertive with my needs and implementing dread, I was still begging.
With value, and real assertiveness, comes options.
Make sure you put everything in context with the other books.
Take this book, it's long examples and win your journey.
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- Anonymous User
- 23-02-2022
Boring
Probably the most boring book I've read or listened to. Especially during the examples. I nearly ripped my hair out listening to the dialogues.
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