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Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay
- A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship
- Narrated by: Adriane McNeely
- Length: 8 hrs and 33 mins
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- rachel
- 01-02-2024
very helpful for dealing with ambivalence.
easy to follow questions helping to make decisions. very clear with helpful life stories. thanks
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- Scott
- 13-08-2016
wow simple and true.......
very wise and interesting good points I'm sure looking at myself and my actions now...
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- Melissa
- 13-06-2016
Great advice when you can't decide
great narrator.. like a pep talk from a wise friend that puts everything in perspective
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- Adelaide Cork
- 23-12-2023
Brilliantly written and very eye-opening.
This book really was a pivotal resource in helping me know if my relationship was too good to leave or too bad to stay. Brilliantly written and very eye-opening to many behaviours within my ex relationship. Thank you!
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- Anonymous User
- 08-06-2021
Thought & reflection provoking
Struggled to finish, however I had enough info to think and reflect on my actions their actions and it opened a dialog I would otherwise never have been able to do. Don't listen if you hate ugly crying
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- Anonymous User
- 02-01-2023
Helpful
Easy to listen. Gives lots to of helpful questions consider to help make an important decision.
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- Anonymous User
- 16-12-2018
it was ok
was an easy listen and clearly spoken. book slightly helpful but seemed a bit basic.
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