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Raising a Secure Child

By: Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, Bert Powell, Daniel J. Siegel - foreword, Christine M. Benton - contributor
Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
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Publisher's Summary

Today's parents are constantly pressured to be perfect. But in striving to do everything right, we risk missing what children really need for lifelong emotional security. Now the simple, powerful "Circle of Security" parenting strategies that Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, and Bert Powell have taught thousands of families are available in self-help form for the first time.

You will learn:

  • How to balance nurturing and protectiveness with promoting your child's independence
  • What emotional needs a toddler or older child may be expressing through difficult behavior
  • How your own upbringing affects your parenting style - and what you can do about it

Filled with vivid stories and unique practical tools, this book puts the keys to healthy attachment within everyone's reach - self-understanding, flexibility, and the willingness to make and learn from mistakes.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying reference material will be available in your Library section along with the audio.

©2017 The Guilford Press (P)2017 Tantor

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I think about this book everyday!

After listening to this book I find myself thinking what is the cause of this and what is my child going through right now, instead of me thinking how can I make a great mum out of this situation. I seriously look back and think of my shark music and its a slap in the face, I swore I wouldn't be like my parents but now being able to identify I can stop myself. I've stopped trying to think I am doing this for me to be a better mum or for my son to help him get through something.

I constantly go over this book as I find new things and ways to think. I am ever so greatful that I have a new way of thinking for myself (my confidence is getting better)and my child.

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Real life examples

I love the examples across the lifespan, that are provided that are relatable. I will be listening to this a few times as I put it into practice. Thank you

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Very helpful book

Circle of Security delivers attachment theory to parents in such a clear and understandable way. It just makes so much sense and after listening to this book you can’t help but see it everywhere. Recommend this for any parent or practitioner who works with children.

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Being a good enough parent with this advice

No grateful for all the information collected threw this study of secure attachment... I look forward to learning more...

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Informative

Great examples to absorb and get the gist of! massive differences in ways we can react to situations.

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If you read one book about parenting, this is the one to read.

I have read many books about parenting. Some not so good, some excellent. If I read only one, it would be this one. The course they do on this subject is excellent too. Martina, Australia

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Great book for parents

So helpful for parents and a great resource to have to help raise secure children.

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Great

Loved this advice and book. However the accompanying document missing the circle of security diagram that is constantly referenced is a big miss that is really frustrating

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didn't get anything from this book

I normally get something out of every book I read, but not this one unfortunately. is more for people with babies, very small children.

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Supporting documentation lacking

Book has very useful content. However the supporting PDF doesn’t have a diagram of the circle of security which makes it really hard when the book keeps referring to the circle but there’s no diagram to look at. I also don’t like how the chapters only have numbers. It would be much better if they had titles, so you could navigate the book easier. I also think sometimes when it saids to refer to a chapter number that the chapter number is actually different on the audio book chapters.

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