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Publisher's Summary

When it comes to finding a suitable mate for a passion filled, committed relationship, one of the things men want most in a woman is self-possession, or said another way, womanly poise.

When a woman lacks poise she generally gives too much of herself, and usually at the most ineffective times when dating a man. She is too lenient with men in the beginning stages of a new romance, and she's prone to compromising her standards just to keep a man in her life.

A woman with poise never chases or throws herself at a man, especially if he's pulling away from her. She also doesn't make things easy for a man by clearing her schedule "just in case" he calls or comes around.

This book was designed for women who want to go from being powerless to being irresistible to men. In it, you'll discover the secrets to having more confidence and power with men and dating as you learn the beliefs, attitudes, dating rules, "love habits", and seduction secrets of the high-value woman.

Here's what you're going to learn inside:

  • The most seductive first date "good deed" that can capture a man's desire and make him desperate to see you again
  • The number-one key to conquering a man's heart during the early dating stages (this is something most women only figure out after years of painful trial and error)
  • How to get a boyfriend by avoiding a huge relationship-killing mistake most women make within the first few weeks of dating
  • How to get a man to treat you like a top priority (instead of his plan B) once you start dating him
  • How to maintain the "queen's composure" when men pull away and how to use it to make the good ones come running back to you
  • The "dating rules" high-value women use to quickly eliminate players and find Mr. Right
  • And much, much more

Get started right away and discover how to date like a high-value woman to get the guy without getting played.

©2017 Bruce Bryans (P)2017 Bruce Bryans

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an awesome book to read.

i love Bruce Bryan's books. concise and to the point. i read most of his books. they are uptodate with modern society but not neglecting traditional moral behaviors. a lot of useful tips to use in relationship and dating. highly recommended.

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great!!

loved it! great book. learnt so much. thank you so much. I will take on the advice and use it.

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  • Lindsay D.
  • 17-06-2017

29 Great Standards Women Need! Great advice Bruce!

a must read for any woman who has ever wondered what she did wrong, more than once! total life saver! Ive listened to it twice, and just ordered another book by this author. I also recommend Matthew Hussey and his book get the guy, and secrets of the male mind.

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  • Denise M Brock
  • 26-07-2017

How to get man without getting played

Extraordinary It clarified self worth emphasized standards which validated no love loss. Its very unique.

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  • Kim Bray
  • 27-08-2017

It really helped me understand my value as a woman

I learned so much that can help me in my current dating life and what to do and not do when dating.

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  • Woody's view
  • 13-11-2017

The Author's Like The Brother You've Always Wanted

I love that "How to Get a Man Without Getting Played: 29 Dating Secrets to Catch Mr. Right, Set Your Standards, and Eliminate Time Wasters" makes you feel like you are having a casual chat with a big brother or father figure about dating. There's no fluff and sometimes he ensures he repeats important info he wants to get through. It is a great tool to use as a refresher.

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  • Heather Effinger
  • 28-08-2017

Useful

Good insight when it comes to a relationship and how to express what to do in a few situations.

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  • Spencer
  • 10-02-2018

Not What I Was Expecting

I'm a man. I listened to this in the hopes of getting insights into women's dating strategies and challenges. The basic takeaway is that men will treat you how you let them treat you. Duh. Be a lady, set standards and if you're in it to win it don't comprise.

The "be a lady" advice was what I'd most expected based on his men's material. In the men's material, he gets into why this works and the psychology behind it. No such luck with this book.

"Set Standards" is good advice for anyone. He goes beyond that by suggesting what standards work best for finding a spouse. He also outlines some calibrated responses to seeing someone fall below the standards.

Now "if you're in it to win it don't comprise" is perhaps the best advice that he offers. Guys are happy to "not put a label on it," "not introduce you to his friends" or otherwise plan for the future. If he's not serious, be prepared to move on.

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  • Marie M
  • 09-01-2018

Excellent read if you want to raise the bar

Because it hasn't been easy to deal with the dating world, I decided to get myself more knowledgeable on the topic. What the heck, at the end of the day, it wouldn't hurt! This book has reinforced my thoughts around what I suspected intuitively would be positive behaviour to demonstrate while dating. The examples are great visuals and clear suggestions of what he feels we should do....I'm clearer now...loved it!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 28-12-2017

Life Changing!

I’ve been listening to several dating books for women, each of them has brought value and change to my life, but this one left me feeling the best!

It has encouraged me to have more respect for myself, how to have a positive instead of negative outlook on disappointing dating experiences and most of all, I feel empowered and excited about dating. It’s easier now to walk away from men who are bad for me. Years of bad dating habits are quickly falling away with the discovery of this book.

I’ve suggested it to friends who also feel that the information in here is mind blowing. No gimmicks either, but pure, sincere and healthy advice. So glad I found this life changer! I’m glowing with happiness now with the motivation I found in this audiobook.

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  • Louise Douglas
  • 06-08-2017

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Mr. Bruce you book has taught me to become skill full when dating . thank you for helping me to become sharp when dealing with male suiters. you are awesome

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  • Anonymous User
  • 17-07-2017

Great audio book

Great advice !. Very well explained and gave me a new positive outlook and dating as I was starting to get very discouraged. Thank you

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