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Getting Past the Affair

By: Kristina Coop Gordon PhD, Donald H. Baucom PhD, Douglas K. Snyder PhD
Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
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Discovering that a partner has been unfaithful hits you like an earthquake. Long after the first jolt, emotional aftershocks can make it difficult to be there for your family, manage your daily life, and think clearly about your options. Whether you want to end the relationship or piece things back together, Getting Past the Affair guides you through the initial trauma so you can understand what happened and why before deciding how to move forward. Based on the only program that's been tested - and proven - to relieve destructive emotions in the wake of infidelity, this compassionate book offers support and expert advice from a team of award-winning couple therapists. If you stay with your spouse, you'll find realistic tips for rebuilding your marriage and restoring trust. But no matter which path you choose, you'll discover effective ways to recover personally, avoid lasting scars, and pursue healthier relationships in the future.

©2007 The Guilford Press (P)2017 Tantor

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extremely helpful

this book was great to help understand and get over an extremely tough subject to work though, with this help I dont think I would have envisaged a positive recovery

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insightful yet confronting

This audiobook will help with ways to deal with betrayal and how to do the work if you want to help get over the trauma it brings.

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So much good advise

Still finishing listening, but even now i want to give 5 stars.
Lots of good points where they betrayed spouse is stuck and to release the mind from obsessive behaviour and self doubt.

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Very helpful

Well worth purchasing this book as it helped me at a difficult time and when I wasn’t sure how I was going to get my marriage back on track.

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The best resource

this has been better than anything else, my couples therapist included. follow this program and you will be much better off.

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