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The ultimate sex guide

Who's not looking for great sex? A satisfying sex life adds spice to your partner relationship. But how are you getting a better sex life? Lovemaking is more than just "making love". It involves the perfect mix of communication, the right attitude, loving your body, and the like. Here are some guidelines for helping women out there revive their lost sex drive and ultimately achieve a fulfilling sex life.

Great Sex Guide #1: Do not stray your thoughts while you have sex.

This means having the right sex attitude. You have to free yourself from negative feelings like self-consciousness, guilt, bad judgment, and other hang-ups to fully experience the pleasure of sex. That also means you'll have to avoid worrying about your pending office work or the things you'll do the next day while making love with your partner. Just enjoy the moment and enjoy yourself.

Great Sex Guide #2: Relax and do not put yourself under pressure.

Special anxiety for women who are pressuring themselves to perform well during sex.That's why, by faking an orgasm, many women subconsciously hide their sexual problem. That's not the sex essence. It is recommended that you relax and enjoy your partner's intimate moments.

Great Sex Guide #3: Stay fit and be healthy.

You probably know that people who have a lot of sex are happier people. Several studies support this. You need more energy to be able to have more sex. Enough sleep, plenty of rest, proper exercise, and a balanced diet can increase your sexual endurance. These healthy factors lead to better circulation of the blood to the sex organs, which is very important for excitement and orgasm.

Great Sex Guide #4: Get rid of stress.

Find ways to reduce stress to increase the likelihood of excitement. Why not go at least once a week to a date with your partner? Or by taking a shower together or spending an intimate night by the beach, you can make your sex life more exciting and steamy.

Great Sex Guide #5: Love your body and accept it.

Do you hate to be chested flat or overweight? Just because you don't have the ideal size of your cup, that doesn't mean you can't have great sex. Only your sensuality can ruin your negative feelings towards your body. How good your body feels when you have sex with your partner is what matters. Learn how to love your body and its curves. You may not know that your big curves to your partner look sexy.

Great Sex Guide #6: Don't worry about exploring and experimenting.

It shouldn't be too serious about sharing the passion with your partner. Think of sex as a fun activity - you can be creative and try things differently. You can talk about your fantasies with your partner, for example, and find out how you can make them a reality. Find out what's turning you on in bed, too.

©2019 Tamara Edelweiss (P)2019 Tamara Edelweiss

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  • Paula Morris
  • 16-09-2019

Absolutely AMAZING!!

Absolutely AMAZING!! I love how relatable this book is. I believe as Christian's we should be as open and direct with our views on sex and intimacy in marriage as God designed it to be. I have learned great tips and helpful information that will help strengthen my marriage. This book should be available for couples retreats, singles pre-marital counseling, etc.

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  • Charles Morris
  • 16-09-2019

i'm in love with this book

This book is great for new marriages and for those of us who have been married for over 35 years. It has sound truths that will reinforce what you know and encourage you when you feel the spark is gone. As women, we tend to get overwhelmed with life chores and forget the most important role we have in marriage, sex and the joy it brings to an intimate relationship. I gave his book 5 stars because I would recommend it to every married woman and challenge you to give it as gifts to others.

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  • Clyde Caldwell
  • 16-09-2019

Enjoyed the perspective of the author.

Enjoyed the perspective of the author. If I only learned one thing it’s that men need sex to feel loved, while us girls need to feel loved to give sex, GIVING guys sex makes them feel all loved and mushy, and all up in their feeling...lol. Never looked at it that way before.

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  • Ming Weinberg
  • 16-09-2019

This book was an amazing find.

This book was an amazing find. the author has explained the introduction which made me all the more likely to want to buy this book and give it a shot. The first 100 or so pages are definitely pre-marriage. If you're engaged, stop after about I think page 105. Wait until after the wedding night too listens to the rest. listen to your husband. This has been very helpful and fulfilling for our marriage. We were both virgins going into this marriage and we still refer back to this book. I love it and still recommend it to all my soon-to-be-married girlfriends.

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  • William Reyes
  • 16-09-2019

I got this book while I was engaged to be married.

I got this book while I was engaged to be married. It was one of the most helpful books in preparation for sex in marriage. Lots of sound advice on the mental, emotional, and spiritual aspects of sex, as well as great practical advice for the physical side of things. I thought it was so great that I gave my copy to a friend who was getting married the month after me and will probably be purchasing another copy just to have on hand. What I learned has been invaluable in my marriage. Highly recommend.

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  • Fred Odom
  • 16-09-2019

I learned a lot about the many mistakes

I've been married for 40 years and wish I had been able to listen to a book like this in the beginning!! I learned a lot about the many mistakes I have been a part of over the years. Thanks for setting me straight. This book will be the book I give to every new bride!

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  • Richie Crabtree
  • 16-09-2019

the author did a wonderful job!

I was a little leery on a Christian based book for sex advice, even though I am a Christian. I think the author did a wonderful job of explaining things realistically in a laid back manner that still connected it to our faith base.

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  • Perry Rodriguez
  • 16-09-2019

i love this book!

My husband and I will be celebrating our 5 yr anniversary this December. And I am already at the point where our “sex life” is very stale. He wants it, I want to get it over with. There has got to be more to sex then this!!! Let me tell you, this book has been a Godsend; where before I was thinking, “ why does he need it so much? How can I get out of it tonight?” I am putting to practice ideas from this book, in this book really made me step out and light my own fire for my husband.

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  • Christopher Harville
  • 16-09-2019

I listen to this book right before I got married,

I listen to this book right before I got married, being I was a virgin and marriage would be all new territory for me, and it helped answer so many questions in a modest, biblical way, yet showed you ways that you could have fun in the bedroom and not feel guilty about it. It helped me realize that sex in marriage is amazing and wonderful and beautiful. I will definitely be buying this book over and over to give to my friends before they get married.

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  • Gail Kidd
  • 15-09-2019

We have really been having a lot of fun.

We have really been having a lot of fun. Actually my husband has been a little worn out. I think the best part of it is secret and not knowing what is going to happen next, but knowing that it is all good. Great book, a must for a new romance.

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  • Sienna Winter D.
  • 16-09-2019

great book!

I purchased this book for a bachelor gift as I wanted to give something unique and well, this sums up my friend perfectly. She loved it and everyone thought this was a great idea and I would recommend giving this as a gift or just buying it for yourself to give you some motivation and pointers!

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  • Sean Woodward
  • 16-09-2019

i love this book

This book was a good listen and I was able to learn valuable information about how the bible interprets marriage and sex. It completely shifted my mindset about sex and how important it is in a marriage. I think it has made me become a more loving wife and intentional.

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  • Benjamin Iqbal
  • 16-09-2019

This is not the first book I have listened to that

This is not the first book I have listened to that deals with sex from a Christian perspective, but it is the best in my opinion. Personally, I strongly identified with some of the issues described in this book and found her advice relatable, helpful, and most importantly, very Biblical. If you are struggling in this area and only listen to one book, this one would be my suggestion.

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  • Alexandra Patel
  • 16-09-2019

This book is a must-listen

This book is a must-listen for young virginal brides but it's even more beneficial for women like me. I've been married for ten years and struggling with the idea that sex is shameful or dirty. This book has helped me to understand what a healthy Godly marriage should look like. This book along with prayer has helped tp reprogram my brain and bring new life to my marriage. I'd say that $10 for a book is much cheaper than a lifetime of therapy.

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  • Morgan Akhtar
  • 16-09-2019

Such a good book for the newly married couples

Such a good book for the newly married or soon to be married. Her personality is fun and the information is solid. Her Biblical worldview is solid and comprehensive.

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  • Callum Hodgson
  • 16-09-2019

The author is funny, honest, and mostly balanced

This is the best book I have to listen to on the subject of sex within Christian marriage. The author is funny, honest, and is mostly balanced. Most of the Christian books related to sex are explained by men (some co-explained by the wives), and the ones I have to listen to did not do a great job really discussing the woman's side of things. This book is specifically for women, and it is long overdue.

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  • Ella Weston
  • 16-09-2019

This book was surprisingly soooooooo good.

This book was surprisingly soooooooo good. I appreciated it because it wasn’t just a “how-to” but talked about all those questions I had about communication, fertility, what do you do if you get your period on your wedding night, etc. I appreciated it gave all perspectives and didn’t tell you what was right or wrong.

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  • Gracie Sykes
  • 16-09-2019

I didn't know what to expect while listening to

I didn't know what to expect while listening to a book like this. She covered just about every topic and "gray area" you could imagine... I feel like I have a new understanding as to how sex in a marriage should work and I can't wait to apply what I have learned!

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  • Louis Carter
  • 16-09-2019

It helps enormously to learn

There are many questions a girl can have when entering into marriage, and unfortunately, no one in society provides much guidance, especially from a religious perspective. Today it’s all about bodies, thanks to medicine taking over sex-Ed. But when that spiritual viewpoint gets lost, things just DON’T work right. You’re left to figure out on your own based on “what feels right”. But those signals aren’t always clear. It helps enormously to learn from the views and experiences of others through their stories, no matter what your religious beliefs are.

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  • Amy Taylor
  • 15-09-2019

I wish the cover could be a little more discreet

I wish the cover could be a little more discreet because it is not something that you can leave laying about. It kind of SCREAMS its tips.

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