Fingers Crossed: How Music Saved Me from Success
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Fingers Crossed: How Music Saved Me from Success
Narrated by:
Mark Gardener, Miki Berenyi
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Narrated by:
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Mark Gardener
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Miki Berenyi
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Miki Berenyi
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Formed in 1988, Lush were part of the London gig scene during one of the most vibrant and creative periods in UK music. Now, Miki Berenyi tells all.
From the bohemian ways of her father's social circle to the privileged glamour of her mother's acting career, Miki's young life was a blur of travel, celebrities and peripatetic schooling. But frequent relocation, parental neglect and the dark presence of her abusive grandmother resulted in crippling shyness, mental-health issues and a vulnerability to exploitation.
The route out of this hole was music - a passion shared by schoolmate Emma Anderson. The teenagers began attending gigs together and would ultimately go on to form Lush. Talented and exuberant, the band became hot property, swiftly transitioning from shoegaze icons to Britpop darlings.
Re-living the tours, recording sessions and music-industry madness they experienced along the way, this uncompromising memoir documents Lush's thrilling rise and untimely fall. Yet at the heart of the book are Miki's own battles: the conflict between her mouthy public persona and her thin-skinned private identity; the trials of being a woman in an infuriatingly male world; the struggle to find a middle ground between 'safe' indie obscurity and 'sell-out' international success. Miki also explores her complicated relationship with Emma - one that has fluctuated between camaraderie and rivalry over the years - and addresses the devastating tragedy that led to the band's split.
Told through frank confession, wry humour and searing emotional honesty, this is the incredible tale of a trailblazing woman and a seminal band.
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Critic Reviews
'So relatable, so poignant, so emotionally intense, it's an irresistible rush of a book.' (Rolling Stone)
'A great memoir requires an extraordinary life story and the ability to write it. Miki has been blessed with both. Compelling. Funny. Vivid. 4/5' (Mojo)
'A beautifully written memoir.' (Stylist)
'A remarkable, revelatory memoir.' (Will Hodgkinson, The Times)
'Fiercely honest and emotionally acute ... Fingers Crossed breaks the mould of music memoir ... Berenyi's writing is characterised by arch humour and a delight in the absurd.' (Fiona Sturgess, The Guardian)
'Fingers Crossed provides a salutary corrective to a much mythologised musical era; it's often extremely funny. But it's also a nuanced portrait of personal survival.' (Kitty Empire, The Observer)
'Intelligent and searingly candid.' (Grazia)
'Miki writes beautifully with soul and humour. A brilliant, engaging read. 8/10' (Classic Rock)
'This is quite the revelation ... infinitely superior to the average rock autobiography ... the most candid, full-disclosure demystification of the indie scene you'll ever read. This is special, a superbly written book about a vanished world and so much more. 5/5' (Record Collector)
'I felt like I was on the rollercoaster with Miki, from making mixtapes with her school friends to the wild dream of making it as a pop star. It's a gripping and delightful read even as, without an ounce of self-pity the bright energy of Miki's star is always tailed by darkness - the neglect and worse of an abusive childhood and the misogyny and exploitation that hangs like a pall over the Britpop years. A thrilling, moving and essential book for anyone who grew up in love with pop music.' (Samira Ahmed)
The first half describes the highs and lows of growing up in London with parents more interested in their own careers (her Japanese mum was in a James Bond film and Space:1999), and leaving her to be looked after by an abusive, unhinged Hungarian Grandmother. Music provided the escape.
The second half describes the forming of the band, early gigs, touring at Lollapalooza in 1992 (bizarrely, if you are familiar with the Lush sound, on the main stage with Ministry and Ice Cube), and charts the negative rise and influence of Britpop until the band breakup in tragic circumstances in 1996. It's an honest account that's sure to have raised some feathers.
The Q+A with Mark Gardener (Ride) at the end was like two old mates chatting down the pub and a great added extra. Uncompromising, and at times funny, hers is a story that makes for a great audiobook.
Unflinching account of the 90's Indie music scene
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Best Music autobiography I’ve heard in a LONG time.
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