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  • By: Dolly Alderton
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  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (798 ratings)

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Everything I Know About Love

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Brought to you by Penguin.

Narrated by Dolly Alderton

The Sunday Times best seller with a new chapter on turning 30.

Winner of Autobiography of the Year at the National Book Awards 2018

A Waterstones Paperback of the Year 2019

A Sunday Times paperback of the year 2019

Selected for Stylist's The Decade's 15 Best Books by Remarkable Women

Award-winning journalist Dolly Alderton survived her 20s (just about) and in Everything I Know About Love, she gives an unflinching account of the bad dates and squalid flat-shares, the heartaches and humiliations and most importantly, the unbreakable female friendships that helped her to hold it all together. Glittering with wit, heart and humour, this is an audiobook to press into the hands of every woman who has ever been there or is about to find themselves taking that first step towards the rest of their lives.

©2018 Dolly Alderton (P)2018 Penguin Audio

Critic Reviews

"There is no writer quite like Dolly Alderton working today and very soon the world will know it." (Lisa Taddeo, author Three Women)

"The book we will thrust into our friends' hands. Alderton feels like a best friend and your older sister all rolled into one and her pages wrap around you like a warm hug." (Evening Standard

"Alderton is Nora Ephron for the millennial generation." (Elizabeth Day)

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not for me

I found it hard to relate to this book as an autistic and introverted lesbian. Some universal themes were of course relatable, but it's for hetero women who drink wine and have a lifelong best friend. If that's you, great! But it left me feeling more empty and alone than empowered. I also didn't like the recipes and skits between chapters.

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Could not relate

I was clearly the wrong audience for this one... I really disliked it. However, given that it has such overwhelmingly positive reviews, it must resonate with other people.

To me, it was low-effort, self-indulgent drivel. It read a bit more like an eight-and-a-half-hour blog post.

The lack of self-awareness of the main character frustrated me. Making sarcastic jokes about poor judgement is not quirky, it just enables the complacency to continue making more bad decisions.

The occasional good life insight was the only real redeeming quality to me. Dolly narrated it well also.

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The most healing and delightful book

This is the most healing, funny, insightful and charming read. Dolly speaks so beautifully about love, loneliness, self discovery and female friendships. Thank you Dolly - it never stops being a delight to read/listen to.

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I wish I could read it again for the first time.

Same for her other book Ghosts. Ghosts was maybe better, but both excellent.
I’m 37, I feel like they perfectly capture the moment in time of my teen and then 20s and 30s years in a way no other book has.

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Could have been shorter...

Overall, this was a good book. Dolly has a great voice for audible, and it was a smooth and easy listen. However, some parts of it were a bit slow and could have been cut or condensed.

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Beautiful book, read beautifully by the author

I first read the hard copy book and loved it. Would highly recommend listening to the audiobook- it will only enhance and expand its impact. Dolly reads it beautifully - adding life and force to the words. I’ve listened to it multiple times. From my home in Australia, I’ve sent passages from the final
chapters to a friend who recently moved to the UK - reminding us both of the little moments that make up a lifelong friendship. I look forward to more from Dolly- thank you for your work! X

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Everything I Love About this Book

I decided to start this book club read with knowing as little as possible and letting myself being swept into Dolly’s story of her life and the evolution of her idea of love. Like life, I found some parts funny, heart-warming, disturbing, sad but ultimately beautiful. I thoroughly enjoyed Dolly’s reflection on how she has perceived love over the last 28 years, and how all forms of love (romantic, friendship and self) have all changed with her experiences and self-worth.

The narration of her own story was brilliant and truly cast a more personal connection on the read.

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Absolutely stunning

Every millennial woman turning 30 should read this. Actually every woman struggling to find a partner or struggling with friendship changes should read this. Very well spoken in Audible form. Loved every minute.

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Lovely book, but the final few chapters let the book down.

Beautifully written, a moving exploration of growing up and learning to love yourself in your mid twenties. The book was an easy listen up until the last few chapters. It felt too long, too cliche.

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Not my cup of tea

I’m a 22 yr old & listened to this book til the end… yet I found this book boring. I was excited to read this book due to the good reviews. Disappointed :(

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  • Clair
  • 01-04-2018

Heartwarmingly familiar

Words can’t express how much I loved this book. I felt myself slink back into my memories for not too dissimilar stories, and finding solace in Dolly’s beautifully writer words. From laughter, to cringing I loved every single chapter of this.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 20-09-2023

A must read for every young girl!

Loved the book from start to finish. The story was such a good depiction of what a 20-something girl's life is like.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 21-07-2020

Excellent, light hearted and fun!

Really enjoyed this book, it was entertaining, vulnerable, funny and well written. This is the definitive voice of every single 30-something. 😎

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  • campbell
  • 26-01-2020

good weekend listen

We're the same age with completely different lives so it was really interesting. lots of gems throughout the book and love the final chapters.

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  • Ms. Victoria R. Black
  • 06-01-2020

Perfect.

Beautiful and hilarious from start to finish! I cried with laughter and sadness and general nostalgia. It felt good to relate to the experiences in this book. Every 20-something should read it!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 24-12-2019

Made me laugh and cry

A lovely write up of the millennial 20 something female experience. Dolly tackles all kinds of love and highlights the good and bad side of each of them. It made me laugh and cry - but most of all it gave me an appreciation of the love that I have in my life. 100% worth the read!

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  • Ade B
  • 22-08-2018

Not for everyone

I didn't finish this book, while I like the delivery and had some "me too" moments, I feel that overall this will resonate with someone of the same demographic as Dolly. FYI - I am a black woman in her twenties.

I didn't hate it... but I found myself a little lost in some of her experiences.

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  • Cam
  • 10-02-2018

Utter sh*t- why does everyone rate this so highly?

What would have made Everything I Know About Love better?

I know it's an auto-biography, but it would be better if this book was not so utterly self-absorbed. I was left speechless at times when I couldn't believe I was listening to a narrative so vacuous and narcissistic. I would call the book one massive 'Humblebrag' if I didn't think Dolly was genuinely so deluded in thinking she's actually ever been through any life-lesson worthy experiences. My summary of the book is: everything-going-pretty-fine-but-I-will-just-write-a-book-about-it. Reeks of first world problems and rich girl white privilege. At one point she used being on £30k a year as a demonstration of how she had humble finances, the poor thing. I had a massive eye roll at this. Almost as much as I did for the 'I took a £200 cab ride as a university student wow I really am loco' story. I am writing this feedback so no one wastes money/credit on a book that they could be spending on better things SUCH AS the also-currently ranked Best Selling 'Why I Am No Longer Talking To White People About Race'. I am not trying to be faux-intellectual and pretentious, not everything has to be serious and tackling big issues and I love a bit of light hearted chick-flick writing as much as the next gal, but I mean COME ON, I lost brain cells listening to such NON-PROBLEMS. I am actually angry that this is a 'Best Seller'. There is NOTHING TO IT. Empty, empty, empty. What Dolly 'learnt about love' is something banal like friends are who really matter zzZZ, aka her failing to recognise and address the unhealthy control she wants to have around her friends (the concluding part of the book where she details her friend's engagement falling apart is very creepily culminated in her describing how her friend promised to 'never forget about her for a boy again' and she essentially 'forgave her' with no comment on her own over-bearing contributions to the friendship was honestly very weird). I know I seem like an uptight b***h who needs to chill but really, a book can be light-hearted and even 'pointless' without being so utterly, utterly empty. Plus the writing is bad? It had ONE JOB?

Would you ever listen to anything by Dolly Alderton again?

No. Never.

Would you listen to another book narrated by Dolly Alderton?

No.

Any additional comments?

We as a society need to analyse how we put London It Girls like Dolly or Pandora Sykes etc etc etc on pedestals without contributing much substance to this world. We created this book. I created it by even buying it.

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  • Jacqui
  • 23-02-2018

Wow

I LOVED this book.

I really can’t get away with how much I can relate to Dolly’s life. I am so thankful for her writing. I, also 29, can completely identify with the thoughts and emotions expressed in this book, in particular the chapters which
involve issues related to overwhelming anxiety, low self esteem that leads to consistent alcohol misuse something I can directly relate to my own experiences of which came to a head and seen me attend my first AA meeting in my 25th year. At a time in my life now where I understand my past unhealthy relationship with alcohol wasn’t related to addiction but to my mental health and my lack of self love or belief...it is so refreshing to hear a woman the same age go through such similar feelings and come out the other side.

I laughed out loud and cheered at Dolly’s sharp baby shower/wedding/every occasion ever that single women are alienated from. THANK YOU!

I listened to this on audiobook over the course of about 5 days, it kept me company on the commute and even caused me to miss my stop one day from being so engrossed in the story.

Spectacular

Thank you for letting us into your life Dolly

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  • Alexandra (Audible Editor)
  • 27-02-2018

Thank you, Dolly

It’s no easy thing to talk in searingly honest detail about all the relationships you’ve had, romantic or otherwise, with even your closest friends let alone publish an entire book chronicling them for all the world to listen to. But that’s exactly what makes Dolly’s book so incredibly refreshing and just very brave. Books on dating and ‘how to be single’ aren’t exactly few and far between but how many of them are willing to readily admit, for example, the time when they modified their personality just to make a relationship work? So it’s fair to say that Everything I Know About Love doesn’t exactly conform to the stereotype of dating/self-help/relationship books because the author’s not one to be stereotyped herself. And, if there’s one thing you take away from listening to Dolly’s highs and lows, it’s that it’s really your friendships that you need to keep hold of, keep sight of and keep working at.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 10-07-2018

Self indulgent but relatable

Easy listen but pretty average. Like half listening to a friend gossip about tinder dates

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  • Abigail Cotton
  • 31-01-2018

Beautiful

I'm only 18 so can't relate to everything in this book, but it feels like a warm hug from a friend's older sister, not least because of Dolly's wonderful voice. A beautiful book that has got me through many stressy sleepless nights. I'm not surprised though, it seems like everything Dolly touches turns to gold. Would 100% recommend to anyone, especially if you're feeling a bit lost or unsure about the world. Love love love it.

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  • Juliet
  • 24-02-2018

Listened in a day

This book is really super and being a teen in the same years was hilarious being reminded of my years glued to the computer screen taking to strangers! I really love the way Dolly can cover both really superficial and more real life sadder topics so authenticly. Would love more books Dolly! X

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  • Mrs Emily Button-Lynham
  • 26-02-2018

Heartfelt

Heartfelt and beautifully written and narrated. Dolly pulls you into her world and attaches you to the characters in it

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  • Sophie
  • 25-02-2018

Beautiful

I enjoyed this book so much. Dolly writes so beautiful and she expressed so many of the things I’ve felt so precisely. She also reads it so nicely and it felt so personal. I can’t wait to listen to it again.

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  • caroline
  • 21-09-2019

Vacuous badly written rubbish

A complete waste of a credit . It’s a non-story . I don’t believe this superficial self absorbed student, the central person in the book, is typical of 18-20 somethings . Certainly not my children . Otherwise gawd help the country . It’s badly written and boring to boot. I couldn’t finish it . Don’t waste your money

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