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Don't Bite the Hook

Finding Freedom from Anger, Resentment, and Other Destructive Emotions
Narrated by: Pema Chödrön
Length: 3 hrs and 2 mins
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Publisher's Summary

Life has a way of provoking us with traffic jams and computer malfunctions, with emotionally distant partners and crying children - and before we know it, we're upset. We feel terrible, and then we end up saying and doing things that only make matters worse. But it doesn't have to be that way, says Pema Chödrön. It is possible to relate constructively to the inevitable shocks, losses, and frustrations of life so that we can find true happiness. The key, Pema explains, is not biting the "hook" of our habitual responses. In this recorded weekend retreat, Pema draws on Buddhist teachings from The Way of the Bodhisattva to reveal how we can:

  • Stay centered in the midst of difficulty
  • Improve stressful relationships
  • Step out of the downward spiral of self-hatred
  • Awaken compassion for ourselves and others

©2018 Pema Chödrön (P)2018 Random House Audio

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  • Carolin
  • Darlington, WA, AU
  • 26-10-2018

So many inspiring insights

i know that I will definitely come back to this one again. im fact it prompted me to sign up for her online course to investigate the topics mentioned further.

i always resonate with Pema's wisdom which she conveys with humor and passion.

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  • Kimm Harris
  • 23-05-2018

Always learning from Pema

No matter how many times I listen to this book, I learn. Thanks to Pema for making these teachings so much more available to me.

I like that Pema reads her work.

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  • Sue Gambill-Read
  • 25-08-2018

Pema is my valium

She keeps me from being dark, morose and combative in my life. I can dip into any of her talks and get recentered.

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  • Tawanda
  • 22-04-2018

Owner's manual for being human

Reading this book was like finding my Owner's manual for being human. It reminds us all how alike we are and how we can ease our own suffering as well as that of others.

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  • Kindle Customer
  • 23-02-2018

Pema's Great

This is a really good book. It's very clear and interesting. Narrated by Pema..makes it better, than the others.

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  • Barbara J
  • 09-12-2018

always inspiring

In a world filled with so many things that can "hook" us, Pema Chodron teaches us how NOT to bite the hook. Very liberating!

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  • Ahmad Marwan Alanazy
  • 14-02-2019

ممتاز جدا ساعدني على التحكم بمشاعري

اوصي بابكتاب هذا لكل من يعاني من تأثير المشاعر السلبيه على حياته وعلى من يحب

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  • Time For Success
  • 07-02-2019

The help I was looking for

great book provides insight that is not always easy to see and a vantage point not so easily accessible by the field of my own..

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  • Garret Beaupre
  • 31-01-2019

An Excellent Lecture on the Bodhisattva

I found this to be a very helpful lecture on interpreting the teaching of the Bodhisattva. I especially appreciated how Pema Chodron was able to apply these teachings in modern day scenarios. Excellent!

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  • Louis
  • 22-01-2019

Amazing

I loved this book and is totally life changing. I recently heard about her .

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  • Sonia Allison
  • 19-12-2018

Yay

This id so healing. Thankyou
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  • SJRod
  • 18-01-2018

wow... excellent

I really needed this and it covered all the bases. definitely a must listen to again. pema as always in her great style delivers the message

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  • Marija
  • 02-04-2018

So happy to have it in my library!

I'm in awe with Pema Chodron's ease of explaining concepts and her humour. I have a feeling it's one of those multi-layer books that you get back to over and over always with new understanding of what was mentioned.

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  • Yoshay
  • 20-02-2018

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Insightful and great explanation to Shantideva's teachings. Wonderful guidance on how to work with anger and other negative emotions