
Discipline Without Damage
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Buy Now for $26.99
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Narrated by:
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Adrienne Fish
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By:
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Vanessa Lapointe
About this listen
In this easy-to-listen-to, science-based book, parents, caregivers, and adults of all kinds discover how discipline affects children’s development, why intervention should reinforce connection not separation, and why the disciplinary strategies that may have been used on us as children are not the ones that children really need. As a practicing child and family psychologist and advisor to the British Columbia ministry of children and families, Dr. Vanessa has seen it all, and she has navigated hundreds of tough situations with families. Drawing on scientific research and a wealth of clinical experience, she shows you how to put out the fire without dampening your child’s spirits; how to correct their behavior while emphasizing connection; and how to discipline without damage.
©2016 Vanessa Lapointe, Registered Psychologist (British Columbia #1856) (P)2019 Audible, Inc.This book has all the answers for me and already made an incredible shift in our household. My constantly unregulated 4 year old has been really settled, kind and loving for the last couple of weeks after I changed the way I handled his meltdowns.
He’s stopped hitting his brother, stopped kicking the cat and instead is showing incredible compassion to them both. He literally stopped me and looked at me in the eye and smiled as if to say, thank you, you’ve finally got me. I can finally be at peace with the knowledge I know what my role is as the big person is.
Forever grateful
This book has been life changing - thank you
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This book just changed my world & my kids' worlds!
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Overall, the theme of the book is to firstly understand that children are not born with the ability to self-regulate their behaviour and literally do not possess this tool (i.e. the pre-frontal cortex) untill much later in life. Therefore, it is not possible to teach the child how to attain self-control. The alternative provided through the text is to use connection to help the child to soothe (it is proposed that on many occasions that this is allthe child is looking for and that acting out is the child's way of expressing this need).
There are some great tips in the book but it was a struggle to get through. You could probably get what your going to get out of this book by just reading half of it. I also found the crackly, slow cadence of the naration irritating. I suggest reading it at 2x speed.
Great overall theme but just a few hours too long
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Great parenting advice
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Great book that requires reading again and again
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a must-read for any parent
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This book is a MUST READ for every parent, teacher, grandparents, Anybody that has any part in growing up little people, working with them, or shaping them in any way!
Easy listening, the voice was very pleasant and calming, I enjoyed listening to the sound.
As far as the content, I couldnt stop listening & finished in a day, loved the content, will listen again & again, GREAT ADVICE!
As a child, (a neurodiverse child at that)
I always wondered why all those reward charts never worked, or felt good, I thought it was me.
I'm so grateful to have the knowledge to parent in a way that feels 'right'.
Wish this book was compulsory!
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Affirmative
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All parents need this book!
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Some parts are very confronting, and challenge how most adults have been raised themselves, but in the interest of breaking the cycle and raising mentality healthy humans it is worth taking all that on the chin. I would have enjoyed it more if it had been narrated by Vanessa as I have listened to her speak before and her passion is inspiring, it would have added a level of authenticity.
Must listen for parents
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