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Disarming the Narcissist (Third Edition)

Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed

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Disarming the Narcissist (Third Edition)

By: Wendy T. Behary LCSW, Jeffrey Young PhD - foreword, Daniel J. Siegel MD - preface
Narrated by: Joana Garcia
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Do you know someone who is overly arrogant, shows an extreme lack of empathy, or exhibits an inflated sense of entitlement? Do they exploit others or engage in deluded thinking? These are all traits of narcissistic personality disorder, and when it comes to dealing with narcissists, it can be difficult to get your point across. So, how do you handle the narcissistic people in your life? You might interact with them in social or professional settings, and you might even love one - so ignoring them isn't really a practical solution.

Now a self-help classic, Disarming the Narcissist is a practical, step-by-step communication guide to help you cope with and confront the narcissist in your life. Based on fan feedback, this fully revised and updated third edition features new information on shame, hypersexuality, and infidelity in narcissism; legal information to help you if you are divorcing a narcissist; and the impact of narcissism on children.

With this how-to guide, you'll learn how to separate yourself from a narcissist's traps and gain the respect and validation you deserve - while side-stepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments with someone who is at the center of his or her own universe. Finally, you'll learn how to set limits with your narcissist and when it's time to draw the line on unacceptable behavior.

©2021 Wendy Behary (P)2021 Tantor
Conflict Resolution Mental Health Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Health
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Information was good. I felt like the author is condescending to the narcissist with a lot of put downs and degradation.
The narrator would suit a different style of book… perhaps for children or news events or documentaries about animals or something. I found her difficult to listen to.
Overall the information was good and helped me be able to categorise different levels and types of narcissism.

Good book but…

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It felt as if it's mainly for marriage and co-parenting, still can be useful overall for others.
What I loved the most is that it's coming from schema therapy background.

Good book

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Great book! I found it very helpful. I was able to put the strategies in place and found that they really worked!

I personally struggled with the voice actors style, but the content was so important that I persisted and Im glad I did

Definitely helpful

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The reader was very dull and bland very difficult to find any excitement in listening. It was almost like she was speaking to a child. Better off listening to some of Wendy’s podcasts or buy hardcopy.

Bland dull reader for such an important subject

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The author seems to be discussing her own story. She appears to have gender bias, so throughout the book, she makes remarks to clarify that she is not biased.

The author sounds like she's talking about her story in certain sections.

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