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Dear Dolly

On Love, Life and Friendship, the instant Sunday Times bestseller

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Dear Dolly

By: Dolly Alderton
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'What I learnt from sharing my most private pain with a semi-professional problem-solver was that the mere act of asking for help was, in itself, healing. It was as if I had crept down to the docks under cover of darkness and floated a message out in a bottle, imagining how it might be received. By writing it, I was acknowledging that someone might care about me; that they'd be able to say the right thing without knowing me. Because I was feeling something that other people had felt and therefore I wasn't, as I suspected, the loneliest and strangest woman in the world'

Since early 2020, Dolly Alderton has been sharing her wisdom, warmth and wit with the countless people who have written in to her Dear Dolly agony aunt column in The Sunday Times Style. Their questions range from the painfully - and sometimes hilariously - relatable to the occasionally bizarre. They include breakups and body issues, families, friendships, dating, divorce, the pleasures and pitfalls of social media, sex, loneliness, longing, love and everything in between.

Without judgement, and with deep empathy informed by her own, much-chronicled adventures in love, friendship and dating, Dolly leads us by the hand through the various labyrinths of life, proving that a problem shared is truly a problem halved.

'Alderton is Nora Ephron for the millennial generation' Elizabeth Day

© Dolly Alderton 2022 (P) Penguin Audio 2022

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A compendium of good advice from her Sunday Times columns, Dear Dolly is Dolly Alderton at her wise, warm and witty best. All of human life is contained in these pages: from dating apps to eating disorders, too much sex, not enough sex and the ebb and flow of friendships, relationships and situationships. I felt like a better, kinder person for having read these letters and Dolly's thoughtful replies
With a thoughtful essay about what answering others' questions has taught her, this collection of Alderton's agony aunt advice offers bundles of empathy (and zero judgement) about life's problems, from totally relatable dilemmas to the entertainingly voyeuristic
Her refreshing take makes for compulsive reading. The result is an oddly soothing book, as the problems of others leave you not with a sense of schadenfreude but with the comforting realisation that something you have felt, or are feeling, has been felt by countless others - and it will always be that way
Alderton has struck a chord with a generation ... Invaluable ... A must for die-hard Dolly fans
Dolly Alderton is so gifted at making people care. A rare talent
Alderton is Nora Ephron for the millennial generation
Capturing the hearts and minds of young romantics and dreamers, she offers sage and sisterly advice to those in need
Alderton's wise words can resonate with women of all ages. She feels like a best friend and your older sister all rolled into one and her pages wrap around you like a warm hug
Dolly Alderton is never less than dazzling on the travails of the human heart
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Another piece that is shocking relatable, incredibly funny and naturally well written by Dolly. Every scenario had a degree of relatability and the advice was more unbiased than I would have expected.

Incredibly funny & relatable

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Reading her books is like having a very wise older sister you can ask anything. All her books are easy and enjoyable reads.

I love Dolly Alderton

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Another great listen from Dolly, full of inspiring advice and wisdom to all ages. Recommend.

Wonderful as always

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Dolly takes her big sisterly role to another level as an agony aunt in ‘Dear Dolly’. This book allows the reader to connect to both the original writer of the question and Dolly herself as she answers various questions on exes, friends, family, and all things body and soul. It made me realise I’ve never had an original thought, and that I’m not alone in feeling the way of the original contributor, but that Dolly seemingly was able to answer every question in the most succint way without casting judgement or placing blame. Her words were reassuring and kind, and sometimes the harsh truth, but always true and inspiring. We all need a Dolly Alderton in our lives - my only complaint about this book is that it wasnt longer!

Dolly does it again!

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Just gorgeous, so many helpful thoughts and words of wisdom for common dilemmas. Thanks Dolly ❤️

Thoroughly life affirming

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