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Come As You Are: Revised and Updated

The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

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Come As You Are: Revised and Updated

By: Emily Nagoski PhD
Narrated by: Emily Nagoski, Nicholas Boulton
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A revised and updated edition of Emily Nagoski’s game-changing New York Times best seller Come As You Are, featuring new information and research on mindfulness, desire, and pleasure that will radically transform your sex life.

For much of the 20th and 21st centuries, women’s sexuality was an uncharted territory in science, studied far less frequently - and far less seriously - than its male counterpart.

That is, until Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are, which used groundbreaking science and research to prove that the most important factor in creating and sustaining a sex life filled with confidence and joy is not what the parts are or how they’re organized but how you feel about them. In the years since the book’s initial publication, countless women have learned through Nagoski’s accessible and informative guide that things like stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual well-being; they are central to it - and that even if you don’t always feel like it, you are already sexually whole by just being yourself. This revised and updated edition continues that mission with new information and advanced research, demystifying and decoding the science of sex so that everyone can create a better sex life and discover more pleasure than you ever thought possible.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2015, 2021 Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. All rights reserved. (P)2021 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.
Gender Studies Human Sexuality Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Social Sciences Thought-Provoking Inspiring Health
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This is better than therapy! Fantastic book helping women feel normal - just as they are!

Thank you Emily!

My only suggestion is to remove the music, and I wish Emily narrated all herself, the male voices were quiet annoying lol

Every women (and perhaps men) should listen to/read this book

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Books like these can seem like they are directed at a female audience only, but this is not the case. I listened to this book and got such an amazing and eye opening look into how my partners feels about sex. After discussing key point with her I feel more connected with her in our sex life.
(I’ll never ask her if she’s came again)

Great for male readers!

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This book was amazing! It has changed the way I see women's sexuality (and mine) in the absolutely best way possible. Emily, thank you, thank you, thank you.

Amazing!

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I'm not one to use the words "life-changing" lightly, but this book truly changed my life. This should be part of every high-school curriculum, should be gifted to all your friends & shared with strangers. Emily dives deep into how we came to view sexuality, sex and ourselves the way we do. Her depth of research and clear delivery of the facts allows one to absorb the content but not be forced into feeling a particular way. I will be sharing this with all my loved ones and have already ordered a hard copy to accompany the audiobook.

Profoundly Life Changing

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Learnt a lot about being human.
Some good ideas in here to go forward in life with.

Interesting listen for at home.

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I feel that if you're having issues in the bedroom this is definitely a good read. It's definitely helped me understand more about how my partners thought processes work and how I cam work with them to make us both get the results we want.

I'm a man and I read this book

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There are so many valuable take away from this book. The pdf exercises were really great to do to help me with really applying what was being said in the book to my own experience. Highly recommend. I will listen to this a few more times to make sure I squeeze every last drop out of it!

A must read for anyone that has ever questioned anything about their sex life

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I wish I had this book growing up! Absolutely brilliant from start to finish.

Should Be Mandatory In All Schools

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Super valuable with digestible science and research to support developing a healthy and functioning sexuality.

Full of useful concepts and ideas! Love it!

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I disliked coming across this book so late in my life , it's truly been not enough time

great stuff that should be taught in year 7 worldwide.

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