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Are you having trouble fostering healthy relationships?

Are you stressed, feeling drained, and exhausted from giving too much in your relationships?

Do you know who you are? What you need? What you like? Or do you feel that you need to be validated and approved by a partner (or any other person) to feel good about yourself?

If your life has been overshadowed by an addiction, trauma, or toxic shame, you are probably fighting with an invisible enemy; an enemy that is particularly difficult to vanquish: codependency.

Codependency is notoriously difficult to combat because there is no precise definition of the disorder. The signs and symptoms also differ for everyone. It is often mistaken for narcissism or other personality disorders that do not reflect the true situation.

Experts say that it is a pattern of behavior in which a person finds themselves dependent on someone else's approval for their self-esteem and identity.

People who suffer from this disorder tend to mask what they really feel. At other times, they are not even aware of what they are doing. This only serves to cloud the overall picture by delaying positive interventions, which, sometimes will never come.

I recommend that you listen to this audiobook if:

  • You are not aware of how you truly feel
  • You have difficulty identifying your feelings
  • You have difficulty expressing your feelings
  • You tend to minimize, modify, or even deny the reality of what you feel
  • You tend to worry and/or fear how others may respond to how you feel
  • You give power over your feelings to others

Act now before it's too late!

If a codependent denies his destructive behavior, he can pass it on to his children. If the child does not realize the behavioral model of the parents and its negative impact, it will generate the same patterns as an adult. An endless cycle can be established.

Commit to breaking this cycle and regain control of your life. Buy this book today.

©2020 David Lawson, PhD (P)2020 David Lawson, PhD

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  • Barrett Gutierrez
  • 15-08-2020

One of the excellent guidebook

The book also helps me to see clearly the narcissist-bent society we live in, one that tends to enable people who are trying to have this kind of power over others. Overall, I am finding the book extremely direct, insightful, and helpful.

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  • Cheryl Carroll
  • 15-08-2020

Fantastic to listen and so insightful

Would definitely recommend this book to anyone who has been in a narcissistic relationship the tills given to heal work thanks so much. This is a book which identifies the traits of a narcissist and how to slowly release the abuse and become a full person again.

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  • Dante Orozco
  • 15-08-2020

Sometimes a book feels like a beloved

This book was a gift for me while healing from covered mental and physical abuse. I would suggest this book for anyone who has a Survivor. I hope you all the luck and benefits.

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  • Laverne Randolph
  • 15-08-2020

I chose this perfect guidebook for all

Excellent, audio book for codependents. I think it is exceptionally beneficial to the chance that you pursued well and accustomed to it.

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  • Annmarie Vasquez
  • 15-08-2020

There is a powerful message in this audio book

There is a powerful message in this audio book that can help you get rid of emotional baggage, heal your personal relationships, and help you become a stronger person. The audio book touches on a lot of hidden issues that you may not even realize you have. Definitely worth a listen!

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  • Wilber Dodson
  • 14-08-2020

Guidelines to escape from codependency

A guide on steps to take to recover form codependency. This is unusual as other books only explain the reasons and traits of codependency, but this book gives useful tools on how to recover from codependency.

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  • Nikki Olsen
  • 14-08-2020

Just fall in love with this book

The book effort highly reflected in every portion of it. Before listening this one i thought it was an average book but after listening this now i can say that its an extraordinary one. Just fall in love with this book.

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  • Roxie Moran
  • 14-08-2020

Wonderful instructions to find my true self

It has helped me not only understand myself, but also my abusers who took advantage of me because of my codependent tendencies.

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  • Wade Mack
  • 14-08-2020

This audio book is just real advice

This audio book is just real advice on how to not limit yourself and your relationships by codependency, but to instead be inspired to the best you; therefore attracting the best person they can be in others.

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  • Tamra Harper
  • 14-08-2020

This audio book really opened my eyes

This audio book really helped me after my breakup with my boyfriend. I can see the patterns I’ve had throughout failed relationships and learned what my issues have been and where I have fallen short.

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  • Anne F. Blanton
  • 15-08-2020

This audio book has lots of positive insights

This audio book has lots of positive insights in freeing us from the threat of codependency. I felt more secured and freer today. If you think you are stuck, this audio book will help you think otherwise. If your life has been overshadowed by an addiction, trauma, or toxic shame, you are probably fighting with an invisible enemy; an enemy that is particularly difficult to vanquish

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  • Lola C. Martin
  • 15-08-2020

This is a motivating and informative book

I'm impressed by this good content guidebook. This is a motivating and informative book. I learned many effective things from this audible.

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  • Stacey L. Randazzo
  • 15-08-2020

Absolutely one of the most important book

The book excessively nice information on narcissism and codependency. This is a useful beginner's guide! Accelerated learning on guide for self-healing. It is often mistaken for narcissism or other personality disorders that do not reflect the true situation.. Absolutely one of the most important book.

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  • Betty M. Bibbs
  • 15-08-2020

I love it and following this audio book

This book discusses the characters and disorders that can affect one to become codependent. It combines the two aspects of narcissism and codependency to enlighten and take you on an adventure of self-reflection.

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  • Sue K. Jo
  • 15-08-2020

An instant favorite for me

This audio book sets the bar very high for anyone looking to find a quality listen on being codependent or being an empathy. Excellent information.

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  • Ettie J. Randall
  • 14-08-2020

The audio book is all about codependency!!!!

The audio book is all about the codependent relationships. It blew me away and helped to shed light on a subject that I had no idea existed until recently. How utterly clarifying! I suppose learning to say 'no' is important lesson nearly for everyone.

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  • Shannon W. Acker
  • 14-08-2020

This audible will enable you to unhesitatingly

This audio book explained my childhood and adult life to me in a way that has helped tremendously. I can use this audio book to work on being a more authentic person.

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  • Karen T. Lord
  • 14-08-2020

I would highly recommended to listen this book

This audio book was very helpful. It helped me realize how much I was neglecting myself. It opened my eyes to the importance of self care.

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  • Phyllis W. Davis
  • 14-08-2020

A very simple and well-spoken this audible

I'm a slow reader, haven't finished it yet and it is already helping me tremendously. Highly recommend this audio book for anyone who does too much for everyone else!

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  • Heather G. Merritt
  • 14-08-2020

I love it and following this guide audio book

This for me is the seminal audio book on Codependency and recovery. It's a once dense but accessible, and with so much dimension, it bears repeated listening as one moves through recovery and life.

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