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Full of sass, soul, and the type of empowering wisdom that no woman should live without, Choosing Me Before We is like a heart-to-heart with your closest girlfriend. And best of all, you'll discover that your closest girlfriend is your own truest self, inside you, always ready to offer wise, loving advice about what is best for you. Designed to challenge and guide women to create the relationships they want instead of the ones they often find themselves stuck in, this book is packed with stimulating questions to uncover what's true for you, powerful techniques to change old habits that sabotage your dreams, and real-life experiences shared by the author, her friends, and her clients.

©2009 Christine Arylo (P)2016 Tantor

Critic Reviews

"A savory, sassy read for every woman seeking more than a fleeting fairy tale." (Kimberly Wilson, author of Hip Tranquil Chick)

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Real, relatable, honest, evidence based.

I found this book very relatable and real. The narrator is great and the book contains small jokes and pieces that everyone can relate to. It is a book written for ALL relationships.... not just heterosexual. I think reading this before getting into a relationship is a must. There are practical exercises that help you get inside your head and break down what it is you TRUKY want, not what you think you want or 'should' want. Loved it, and will listen to it again.

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  • Isabel Alvarez
  • 05-02-2018

helped me through a breakup

this book is one of the best sell help books i have read. it really teaches you the importance of self love and the relationship with yourself.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 13-06-2018

Disappointed

Alot of repetition, terrible narration, just a really hard book to follow. I tried several attempts to finish

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  • Alexis
  • 21-06-2020

Read Now!!

This book changed my outlook on myself, relationships, and life in general. This is NOT some cheesy self help book at all!
It’s honest, insightful, and funny. After reading this book I found her podcast and have now enrolled in a few of her classes. Do yourself a favor and get this book. If you’re on the fence about getting this book take the leap and get it!!!!
#gamechanger

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  • Kimberly
  • 30-01-2020

Moving

This book was so moving. Tears of joy right now. Sad it ended, but will be reading again. Cheers to Me & all women learning to choose Me first.

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  • MDunstan
  • 19-12-2019

The reader was terrible

I would bet the message of the book was great, but I couldn’t listen to this lady’s voice

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  • Javon Frazier
  • 07-07-2019

I just can’t....

I’m really trying to follow this book but I just can’t. The narrator is so dull, no life at all, no emotion. The story doesn’t seem to ever pick up. I wish I could get a refund. It was a total waste

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  • Ari
  • 08-12-2018

So Silly

If you’ve read any other self-help EVER, you’ll quickly realize this one is pretty garbage. I’d compare it to The Secret and I’m disappointed I paid for it

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  • BJules1982
  • 12-10-2018

Best self-realization book I've found!

I REALLY wish this book came with a PDF of the questions and reflections, but I highly recommend this book to all of my girlfriends! It is so helpful to put things in a healthier perspective.

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  • momo
  • 11-11-2017

Thanks for the confirmation ♡♡♡♡♡GOD is working.

I really enjoyed this book and the Insight that he gave me into my past as it pertains to my future. It shed light on things that I need to deal with and things that I halfway dealt with but the truth makes us free.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 22-04-2017

Gut kicking

I loved this book. It really made me question a lot of things that I've been holding onto in bad relationships that I've had and continue to have and really reminded me to love myself first. I would highly recommend

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  • Anonymous User
  • 13-08-2020

Inspirational

I love this book and will listen to it again. Every woman whether they are single or in a relationship should read this book! I have recommended the book to all my friends and colleagues.

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