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Episode 7: From Staff Spouse to Lead Pastor Spouse

In this honest and heartfelt conversation... Debbie and Jill are joined by Dana Hustko and Bethany Jack to talk about one of the most significant transitions in ministry life—moving from being a staff pastor’s spouse to a lead pastor’s spouse. This is a space for those walking beside a calling—where identity is formed beside it, not lost within it.

They share real experiences about increased visibility, shifting relationships, and the unexpected pressures that come with this role. From navigating criticism and comparison to learning how to support your spouse and protect your identity, this episode offers practical wisdom and encouragement for every season.

Whether you’re stepping into this role for the first time or have been living it for years, this conversation is a reminder that you are not alone—and that your identity is formed beside the calling, not lost within it.

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Email us at: besideeverycalling@gmail.com

Table Talk Questions:

1. What has been the most challenging part of navigating relationships within the church in your current season?
2. Are there areas where comparison or outside expectations are affecting your joy?
3. How can you more intentionally support your spouse while also caring for your own identity and calling?
4. What rhythms could help you stay grounded and spiritually encouraged in this season?