What does it take to lead when the plan breaks, the pressure spikes, and failure is part of the mission?

In this episode of Leveraging Thought Leadership, Peter Winick talks with Colonel (Ret.) Merryl Tengesdal, author of "Shatter the Sky: What going to the stratosphere taught me about self-worth, sacrifice, and discipline" about the ideas that drive her work today: adaptability, resilience, authentic leadership, and the courage to keep moving when the outcome is uncertain. Her message is clear. Success is never a straight line. The leaders who thrive are the ones who learn to adjust in real time.

Merryl brings a powerful framework to the conversation. She treats leadership like flying. You prepare well. You know the mission. But you also stay alert, read the conditions, and make smart adjustments when reality changes. That perspective makes her thought leadership practical for executives, team leaders, and organizations facing constant pressure to perform.

She also makes a compelling case for rethinking failure. Not as a verdict. Not as an identity. But as part of the process of building something meaningful. Merryl challenges the idea that top performers avoid setbacks. Instead, she shows that real growth comes from how leaders respond when things do not go according to plan.

What makes this conversation stand out is Merryl's ability to turn high-stakes experience into usable insight. She does not rely on polished theory. She speaks with clarity, candor, and conviction about what it means to lead under pressure, recover from disappointment, and stay focused on the larger mission. That is what gives her message relevance far beyond aviation or the military.

Peter and Merryl also explore the role of story in leadership. Merryl explains why great speaking is not performance for its own sake. It is an act of connection. It is how leaders help people see themselves differently, think more clearly, and take the next step forward. Her approach to keynote speaking is grounded in authenticity, not persona, and that is exactly why it resonates.

This episode is a strong listen for anyone building a thought leadership platform around leadership, culture, resilience, or performance. Merryl's work reminds us that strong leaders do not promise perfect conditions. They help people navigate uncertainty with discipline, perspective, and purpose.


Three Key Takeaways:
• Adaptability matters more than perfect plans. Strong leaders prepare well, but they also adjust in real time when conditions change.

• Failure is part of growth, not proof of defeat. Setbacks are inevitable. What matters is how you respond, stay persistent, and keep moving forward.

• Great leadership connects through authentic storytelling. The most effective messages are grounded in real experience and help people see challenges, decisions, and opportunities differently.

If this episode resonated with you, listen to Deborah Gilboa's next. Both conversations center on resilience, adaptability, and what it takes to lead when the path is uncertain. Merryl's episode shows why flexibility, failure, and real-time decision-making matter. Deborah's builds on that by showing leaders how resilience can be developed, how to manage change more effectively, and how to help teams move through resistance instead of getting stuck in it. You'll come away with practical insight on leading through change with more confidence, clarity, and competence.