This episode explores the often-overlooked topic of dating after breast cancer. Hosts Beth and Jes sit down with Michelle, a nine-year survivor who shares her candid experiences navigating the dating scene post-diagnosis.

Michelle opens up about her journey from diagnosis at age 39 through treatment (double mastectomy and chemotherapy), and how she rebuilt her confidence and self-image afterward. The conversation tackles the real questions many survivors have: When do you tell someone about your diagnosis? How do you handle body image changes? What's it really like out there?

The discussion reveals an encouraging truth: breast cancer isn't the dating dealbreaker survivors often fear. Michelle emphasizes that the self-consciousness is often more internal than external—potential partners are attracted to personality, wit, and connection first. The bigger challenge? The modern dating landscape itself, with its instant gratification culture and emotional disconnect.

Key takeaways include giving yourself time (2+ years) to heal physically and emotionally before jumping back into dating, recognizing that body image struggles are universal (whether in long-term relationships or dating), and understanding that it's okay to take a pause when needed. Important reminder: it's okay to have bad days, but tomorrow will get better.

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Companies mentioned in this episode:

1. Faith Through Fire
2. Thrivent Gateway Financial Group