#130: [Inside the Mind] Joe Wessel: Single-Minded Focus and Studying the Golden Bear (Jack Nicklaus) Up Close cover art

#130: [Inside the Mind] Joe Wessel: Single-Minded Focus and Studying the Golden Bear (Jack Nicklaus) Up Close

#130: [Inside the Mind] Joe Wessel: Single-Minded Focus and Studying the Golden Bear (Jack Nicklaus) Up Close

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 In today's episode, I sit down with Joe Wessel—former Florida State safety and coach, author of White Fang and the Golden Bear, and someone who experienced Jack Nicklaus's life, leadership, and family values up close. Joe shares what truly separated Jack from the rest of the golf world: his innate athleticism, his unusual ability to make multiple in-swing adjustments, and—most importantly—his commitment to never letting his family become collateral damage on his path to greatness. We explore how single-minded drive can fuel extraordinary success or quietly destroy relationships, and how intentional priorities, time management, and communication allow you to be fully present both at work and at home. You'll walk away with powerful insights on leadership, family, legacy, and what it truly means to pursue excellence in golf, business, and life. In this episode, you'll learn: How Jack Nicklaus's intangibles, athleticism, and preparation created a different level of competitive advantageThe difference between healthy single-minded focus and destructive obsession that destroys familiesHow intentional time management and clear priorities allow you to be all-in at work and all-in at homeWhy perseverance after failure matters more than natural talent—on the field, in business, and on the courseHow to recognize the heroes already in your life and what that means for how you show up for your kidsWhy documenting your story—letters, journals, recordings—is one of the most powerful gifts you can give your familyHow faith, family, and purpose can become your north star for every decision you make in golf, business, and life Get your pencils ready and start listening. P.P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Joe Joe Wessel is a former Florida State walk-on who became a special teams All-American, then spent 13 years coaching at the highest levels of college and professional football, including stints at LSU, Notre Dame, Cincinnati, and with the Philadelphia Eagles. After leaving coaching, he built a successful career in banking and leadership, where he's known as much for his mentoring and "overpaid psychologist" role as for his business results. Joe is the author of "White Fang and the Golden Bear," a powerful story that weaves together his relationship with his father, his time rooming with Jack Nicklaus's son Steve at Florida State, and the lessons he learned watching Jack compete, lead, and prioritize family. His work sits at the intersection of faith, family, leadership, and high performance—on the field, in business, and at home. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery CallSubscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys NewsletterDownload my "Play Your Best Round" free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course. Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist Key Takeaways: Some advantages are innate, but preparation, athleticism, and awareness are levers we can all train.Single-minded drive is powerful—until it turns your family into collateral damage.Time management is value management: if family isn't on the calendar, it won't happen.You don't need to be the smartest person in the room; you need to lead, delegate, and serve.Perseverance after failure can rewrite your story more than any early success ever will.Your greatest hero might already be in your house—often a parent quietly living their values.Faith and family can anchor you so deeply that success becomes an extension—not a replacement—of what matters most. Key Quotes: "Some people are just born able to see things others can't—but everyone can choose how prepared they are.""He wasn't going to let his family be the sacrificial lamb of his success.""I don't have to be the smartest person in the room—I just have to help people do what they need to do.""If your need is to satisfy your wife and your family with your time, you're going to make that happen.""My hero wasn't a famous coach or athlete—my hero was the man I lived with every day: my father.""If you don't tell your story and write it down, it's not going to get passed to the people who need to hear it.""Faith and family get you ...
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