Type Four - Understanding the Deep-Feeling Child
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Type Four - Understanding the Deep-Feeling Child
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In this episode of Childhood and the Enneagram: Stories That Shape Us, we step into the emotional world of the Type Four child—the Individualist, or as I like to call them, the deep-feeling child. Fours long to be seen for who they truly are and often wrestle with the haunting question: “What’s wrong with me?”
We’ll explore how childhood messages shape their longing for authenticity, the gifts of their creativity and sensitivity, and the struggles they face with shame, comparison, and feeling “different.” I’ll share insights from the Harmony Triad model to show how Type Fours can find grounding in structure and joy in possibility, without losing the beauty of their emotional depth.
Whether you’re raising a Four, teaching or counseling one, or recognizing Type Four traits in yourself, this episode will give you language, guidance, and hope. You’ll discover how to affirm a Four’s feelings without being swept away, and how to remind them they are not missing anything—they are already whole and deeply loved.