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Anchor Breath: A Grounding Technique for Calm Parenting

Anchor Breath: A Grounding Technique for Calm Parenting

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 # Mindful Parenting: Daily Tips for Raising Calm Kids

Welcome back, friend. I'm Julia Cartwright, and I'm so glad you're here with me today. You know, January second is this interesting threshold, isn't it? That magical new year energy is starting to settle into reality, and the kids are probably bouncing off the walls after the holiday break. So if you're feeling a little frazzled, a little stretched thin, I want you to know that's completely normal. That's why we're here together.

Today, I want to give you a practice that's going to help you become the calm parent you want to be, even when everything feels chaotic. Because here's the thing: kids are like emotional sponges. They soak up whatever we're putting out there. When we're centered, they feel it. When we're spinning, they spin too.

So let's start by just settling in. Find a comfortable spot, maybe sit down for a moment, and take a few breaths with me. There's no perfect way to do this. You don't need candles or silence or a yoga mat. You just need you, right here, right now.

Let's begin with a practice I call the Anchor Breath. This is going to be your lifeline when your kid is melting down or you're about to lose it over spilled juice for the thousandth time.

Close your eyes gently, and bring your attention to where your body meets your seat or the ground. Feel that contact. That's your anchor. Now, take a slow breath in through your nose for a count of four. Feel your belly expand like a balloon filling with air. Hold it for a moment. Then exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of five, like you're blowing out candles. The longer exhale actually signals your nervous system to calm down. It's not magic, it's biology, and it works.

Do that with me four more times. In for four, out for five. Notice how your shoulders might drop. Your jaw might soften. Your racing thoughts might slow down just a little. This is what calm feels like in your body. Remember this sensation.

Here's your practical takeaway for today: practice this Anchor Breath three times today, maybe morning, midday, and evening. Better yet, do it right before a transition that usually triggers stress, like bedtime or getting everyone out the door. When your nervous system is regulated, your kids' will follow. You're not suppressing your feelings; you're choosing how you respond.

Thank you so much for joining me on Mindful Parenting: Daily Tips for Raising Calm Kids. Please subscribe so you never miss a practice. You've got this, and I believe in you. See you tomorrow.

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