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E15 - Why Christmas Is the Most Expensive Lie We Tell Ourselves

E15 - Why Christmas Is the Most Expensive Lie We Tell Ourselves

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Christmas isn’t expensive because of gifts.
It’s expensive because of a lie we’ve been telling ourselves for years.

In this episode of Before the Returns, Jaden breaks down why Christmas quietly exposes the strengths — and weaknesses — of a family’s financial system. It’s not about spending too much, lacking discipline, or “doing it wrong.” It’s about what happens when generosity, meaning, and preparation get confused with last-minute consumption.

Released just after Christmas, this conversation meets listeners right where they are — reflecting on what the season felt like and why it so often leaves families emotionally full but financially drained.

You’ll hear:

  • Why Christmas pressure isn’t caused by gifts — but by unplanned generosity
  • The hidden belief that makes December feel heavier every year
  • How families with very different incomes experience Christmas differently
  • Why structure creates peace, not restriction
  • How intentional systems make generosity lighter instead of stressful

This episode isn’t about budgeting harder or spending less.
It’s about understanding the system behind the season — and why families who build wealth don’t avoid life, they prepare for it.

Key Takeaways

  • Christmas exposes your financial system more than any other month
  • Generosity feels heavy when it’s unplanned
  • Consumption has replaced meaning for many families — often unintentionally
  • Structure doesn’t kill joy; it protects it
  • Financial peace comes from preparation, not perfection

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⚖️ Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only. It is not financial, tax, or legal advice. Always consult with a qualified professional before making financial decisions.

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