If you're childless after infertility and growing older feels unsettling, this episode invites you to move from fear to intention and imagine a future that feels grounded and meaningful.

Childlessness after infertility and growing older can bring up fears you never expected to carry. When motherhood didn't happen, aging is often framed as something to brace for rather than something you get to shape. In this episode of The "So Now What?" Podcast, you're invited to move from fear to intention as you explore what it means to grow older without children, reconnect with your body after IVF failed, and begin imagining a future that feels meaningful, grounded, and entirely your own.

This episode was inspired by a simple question I overheard while out to dinner: Has getting old been like you expected it would be?
For women who are childless after infertility, that question can land deeply. Not because aging itself is the problem, but because the future no longer comes with a default storyline.

Together, we talk honestly about the physical fears of aging, the existential questions that surface when IVF fails, and how reaction mode can quietly shrink your sense of possibility. Most importantly, you'll be invited to consider what it might look like to participate in your future, rather than brace for it.

This conversation isn't about having all the answers.
It's about giving yourself permission to imagine again.

• Why growing older without children is often framed through fear

• The physical aging fears many women carry after infertility and why they make sense

• How fertility treatments can leave you feeling disconnected from your body

• What existential fear really means when motherhood didn't happen

• The difference between bracing for the future and imagining it

• Why reaction mode helped you survive infertility but doesn't have to be permanent

• How childless women often have more agency than they realize when it comes to aging

• Questions to help you begin envisioning a future that feels intentional and grounded

If thinking about aging without children brings up tightness, fear, or a sense of "I don't even know where to begin," you're not doing anything wrong. You've already had to let go of a future you worked hard for. It makes sense that imagining what comes next feels complicated.

That's exactly why I offer Thrive Calls.

A Thrive Call is a free, 45-minute conversation where we slow everything down and talk honestly about what you want your life to feel like now and as you get older.

You don't need a full plan.
You don't need clarity before you book.
You just need a place to start imagining instead of bracing.

👉 Book your Thrive Call here!

If you're also navigating intrusive or exhausting conversations about motherhood, infertility, or "what's next," I created a free guide many women find grounding.

The Top 27 Things People Say When You're Childless (and How to Respond)
This guide helps you respond without overexplaining, spiraling, or losing your cool.

👉 Get the free guide here:
https://lana-manikowski.myflodesk.com/thingspeoplesay

Aging without kids doesn't automatically mean loneliness or decline.
It means you get to be intentional in ways most people never have to consider.

You get to decide what matters.
You get to decide where your energy goes.
You get to decide who you're becoming.

Not someday.
Now.

I hope you have a beautiful week.
I love you, and remember that it's never too late to discover your meaning.
I'll talk to you next week.