Most parents want a clean home. Even those who don’t meet someone else’s standard still desire order, tidiness, and peace. We put enormous energy into physical chores—vacuuming before company comes over, rushing the kids to pick up toys, stuffing laundry behind a door. But if we care so much about physical cleanliness… why do we pay so little attention to the spiritual cleanliness of our homes?

Welcome to the HHP Podcast. I’m Chris Franke, Senior Pastor of HFF Church in Oklahoma City. Join me and others from around the country as we talk all things Bible, church, and family. We may be right… we may be heretical… but that’s for you to decide. Drop a like, comment, share, subscribe—and let’s get to it.

In Judaism, Christianity, and even many world religions, the physical and spiritual are always intertwined. So why do we clean frantically for guests—yet ignore the emotional dust, spiritual clutter, and relational messes piling up in our home?

In this episode, we explore:

• Why repentance and forgiveness are the spiritual “cleaning supplies” of a healthy home

• How every household gets messy—emotionally, spiritually, relationally

• Why the healthiest families aren’t conflict-free, but conflict-clean

• How modeling repentance teaches children that mistakes don’t end love—they begin healing

• Why unforgiveness hardens the heart but repentance softens it

• How confession lightens the emotional weight in the home

• Why lingering silence, passive-aggressive tones, and held grudges poison family culture

• The spiritual discipline of rest and why hurried homes create anxious hearts

• How Isaiah 30:15 reveals that rest restores the soul

• Why Sabbath rhythms teach children that worth is not found in productivity

• How your habits become the liturgy of your household—the worship of your daily life

• Why gratitude, forgiveness, joy, rest, and prayer preach louder than any sermon

Habits are liturgy. Rhythms are worship. Your home is always preaching something.

When your patterns embody prayer, peace, repentance, gratitude, and rest, you teach your children that God is both holy and near.

The goal isn’t a perfect home—none exist. The goal is a faithful home, a Christ-centered household where everyone knows who truly holds the family together: Jesus, and the Spirit of Jesus.

Philippians 4:9 says: “Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.”

Let your daily rhythms become your family’s clearest testimony.

• Am I cleaning physical messes faster than I’m addressing spiritual ones?

• Do I model repentance or let wounds linger?

• Does my home have space for rest—or is busyness running it?

• What habits are preaching to my children right now—complaining or gratitude?

• Does the presence of God feel near in our daily rhythms?

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