In this episode of God-Sized Dreams, we’re talking honestly about why healthy habits keep feeling hard — and why so many women walk into a new year already feeling behind, exhausted, and like they’re failing before they even start.

If you’ve ever told yourself, “This is the year I’m finally going to get consistent,” but felt overwhelmed just thinking about it, this conversation is for you.

Here’s the truth most people won’t tell you: Healthy habits aren’t failing because you lack discipline. They aren’t sticking because you’re trying to add them onto a life that’s already overloaded.

Melissa breaks down the one mistake she sees over and over again with high-achieving, faith-filled women — especially those who care deeply, try hard, and still feel like it’s never enough. This episode reframes the idea of failure, explains why this isn’t a willpower issue, and introduces a gentler, God-led approach to building rhythms that actually fit your real life.

If you’re tired of starting over every January, wrestling with exhaustion, or wondering why doing “all the right things” still leaves you drained, this episode will help you slow down, breathe, and take your next baby step forward with clarity and grace.

• Why healthy habits aren’t sticking — and why it’s not a discipline problem

• The difference between effort and capacity, especially for overachievers

• How performance can quietly become a coping mechanism

• Why undoing is wisdom, not quitting, and how God often asks us to let go before adding more

• A simple baby step to help you reclaim time, energy, and peace without adding another thing to your plate

Instead of trying to add a new healthy habit, choose one thing to undo:

• one commitment to pause,

• one app to mute,

• one expectation to loosen,

• or one boundary to reinforce.

Only after creating space do you consider what might be added back in a healthier way.

You don’t have to figure this out alone — and you don’t have to know the “right” next step either.

Depending on where you’re at, here are a few ways (with links) you can take your next baby step:

• MOVE Meet Up — for a monthly Spotify playlist, movement challenge, and encouragement

• Get on the email list — for encouragement, tools, and faith-filled baby steps

• Operation Reset VIP — if you need help slowing down, clearing space, and realigning priorities

• Breakthrough Unstuck Session — a one-time session for clarity and direction

• Screen Time Reset — if distractions and overstimulation are draining your peace

• 6 months of Breakthrough Coaching — deeper, ongoing support and accountability

And if you’re not sure where to start, that’s okay too. You can always email me directly at melissa@melissabatt.com and put “HELP” in the subject line. We’ll connect and figure out the best next step together.

If this episode resonated, share it with a friend who feels exhausted or like she’s failing — and then keep listening. There’s more support waiting for you here.

You don’t have to stay stuck. Let’s take the next baby step together. 💛