In Episode 4 of The Untamed Woman, Alice Hong goes straight into one of the most common (and most quietly damaging) patterns in long-term relationships: faking pleasure.

Not every time. But enough that you don’t remember what it feels like to be fully in your body during sex — to feel, instead of perform.

In this episode, Alice breaks down why so many women fake orgasms (and why it’s not because you’re “broken”), how your Love Masks are often running the show in the bedroom, and what it actually takes to start telling the truth without blowing up your relationship. She walks you through the mindset shifts you need before you have the conversation — and then gives you practical, word-for-word scripts for the most common scenarios: admitting you’ve been faking, asking for more foreplay, giving specific feedback, trying something new, and naming that you’re in a rut.

This is a practical episode. It’s honest. It may feel edgy. And it’s designed to get you out of silent resentment and back into real intimacy, real pleasure, and real presence.

Content note

This episode includes candid conversations about sex/sexuality, orgasm and faking orgasms, intimacy and long-term relationship dynamics, communication during sex, and emotional reactions/defensiveness.

In this episode, we dive into:

• Why women fake orgasms — and the hidden cost (disconnection + resentment)
• The Love Masks behind “performing pleasure” (Good Girl, Ice Queen, Leader, Independent)
• The 6 mindset shifts you need before you tell the truth about what you want
• How to start the conversation outside the bedroom (timing + framing)
• Word-for-word scripts for common scenarios
• How to handle his reactions (defensive, hurt, shut down, receptive)
• What to expect after the conversation (awkwardness, rewiring, building new patterns)

Resources

Free 30-minute training: The 5 Love Masks That Keep Passionate Love at Bay

Connect with Alice

Follow Alice on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alicehongofficial/

Visit Alice’s website: https://alicehong.com/

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