Winter break is supposed to feel cozy and fun. But for a lot of families, it turns into clingy kids, more meltdowns over tiny things, and that constant question on repeat: "What are we doing next?" In this bonus episode, Dr. Amy Patenaude explains what's happening in your child's brain when the school routine disappears, why "relaxing family time" can feel like chaotic whiplash, and how to build a simple winter break rhythm that helps kids feel safe without turning you into a drill sergeant. You'll leave with an easy daily plan, ready-to-steal scripts, and one Tiny Wins tool: Move, Meet, Mellow.

• If your child melts down more on break, start with Your kid lost their trail map
• If you want a simple plan that's not a strict schedule, start with The Daily Trail Map
• If boredom and screen fights are taking over, start with Move, Meet, Mellow

• Why kids' brains often struggle when routines suddenly disappear
• What "winter break wobbles" can look like in real life and why it's normal
• How predictability helps your child's nervous system feel safer
• A simple daily rhythm that reduces decision fatigue and control battles
• How to reframe "they're being ungrateful" into "they feel wobbly"
• Scripts to use when your child is stuck, clingy, or spiraling
• A Tiny Wins framework that makes break feel easier for everyone

• Put a Daily Trail Map on the fridge for tomorrow using 5–7 simple blocks
• Choose one anchor you'll keep steady all week (outside after lunch, quiet time at 2:00, consistent bedtime start)
• Try Move, Meet, Mellow once a day and keep everything else flexible
• Use one script one time before the meltdown hits: "Your brain likes to know the plan. Here's our rhythm today."

"Break days feel really different to your brain. School days have a rhythm. On break, things feel wobbly, so big feelings show up faster. Let's make a simple plan for today."

"We're not doing a strict schedule, but here's our rhythm: breakfast, then quiet play while I work, lunch, outside, then screen time."

"You're not sure what to do right now. Want to pick one: something to move your body, something with another person, or something mellow?"

"Switching from school days to home days is a big change. Your grumpy feelings are your brain saying, 'This is different.' We're going to give it time and a little structure."

• "Nothing is wrong with you or your kids. Their brains just lost their trail map."
• "You don't need a strict schedule. You need a few trail markers."
• "Big feelings on break are often a nervous system signal, not a gratitude problem."

Download the Boredom Buster Cheat Sheet, a kid-friendly Move, Meet, Mellow menu with activity ideas, simple steps to use it, and calm scripts for screen-time boundaries: https://psyched2parent.myflodesk.com/boredomebusterguide

This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for individualized mental health, medical, or educational advice.

• Big Feelings Decoder: https://psyched2parent.myflodesk.com/bigfeelingsdecoder