For years, women have been telling men to "go to therapy," "get healed," and "step up." But what happens when a man actually does it?

In this profound and challenging clip, Pastor James and the panel of men confront a hard reality: Most women are not ready for the man they say they want.

They explain that a healed, God-fearing man leads at a pace and rhythm that can feel uncomfortable if you aren't prepared to follow. The conversation then shifts to the critical mechanics of a successful relationship, from building the right "team" (Visionary vs. Strategist) to the fragile nature of a man's emotional safety.

In this video, you will discover:

The "Healed Man" Paradox: Why a man walking in true authority might feel like he is "dragging" you if you haven't cultivated your own capacity.

Team Dynamics: Why two visionaries in a relationship often leads to stagnation, and why you need to pick a partner who complements your weaknesses (the "Scottie Pippen" to your "Jordan") .

True Spiritual Leadership: It’s not just about praying over food; it’s about a track record of making godly decisions in "crunch time".

How to Close a Man's Heart: The subtle ways women "self-sabotage" intimacy by criticizing a man's playfulness or vulnerability.

Comment below: Do you think you are truly ready to be led by a man who is moving at full speed? 👇

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