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We’re fine. Totally fine. Just out here pretending to have our lives together while everything quietly unravels behind the scenes.

In this episode of Casting It Out, we’re talking about what it really means to be “fine” when you’ve completely derailed your life on purpose and are trying to rebuild it from the ground up. Between job hunting, moving to new places, and figuring out what actually makes us happy, we’re deep in the chaos of starting over and trying to laugh through it.

We’ve done all the things you’re supposed to do: got the degrees, built the careers, hit the milestones. Now we’re both sitting in that weird in-between where everything looks good on paper, but none of it feels like us anymore. It’s disorienting, humbling, and somehow hilarious.

This isn’t an episode about fixing your life; it’s about realizing it was never really broken. We talk about the emotional hangover of always achieving, the burnout that follows when your identity is built around productivity, and the confusing freedom that comes with letting it all fall apart.

There are moments of honesty, delusion, and denial, the full cocktail of trying to function while redefining what “success” even means. We share how we’ve been pretending to be productive, the weird guilt that comes with rest, and what it feels like to start over when everyone else seems settled.

If you’ve ever quit something that was supposed to make you happy, moved cities just to breathe again, or found yourself staring at a blank to-do list, wondering who you even are now, this one’s for you.

Casting It Out is a Nashville-based podcast about the chaos of womanhood, reinvention, and existing outside of expectations. Hosted by two women who are currently unemployed, rebuilding, and laughing through it, this episode is your reminder that “fine” doesn’t mean failure. It’s just the messy middle of becoming who you actually are.