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The Imperfects

By: Hugh van Cuylenburg Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg
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  • We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.

    2024 Hugh van Cuylenburg, Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg
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  • Dr Emily - The Risk of Avoiding Risk
    May 19 2024

    Taking a risk, by definition, is hard. A lot of us spend most of our life avoiding risks, under the assumption that it’s the ‘safe’ thing to do.

    As Dr Em explains, we have an evolutionary instinct for self-preservation; tendencies to overestimate danger and underestimate our ability to cope; and we often have early childhood experiences and messages around safety that can coalesce into ‘playing it safe’ behaviours.

    In this episode, Dr Em reveals that paradoxically, if we spend our whole life avoiding risk, then we are guaranteeing a less engaged, less fulfilling, less ‘lived’ life than we are capable of. That in fact, avoiding risk, is the biggest risk of all.

    Dr Em, also offers strategies to guide us in the direction of letting a little more risk into our everyday lives.

    To watch this full episode on YouTube, follow this link: https://bit.ly/4dMUP0l

    There is a lot mentioned in this episode, find it all below:

    🎧 Previous episodes of The Imperfects

    • Tim Minchin - Lucky to be here https://link.chtbl.com/6kCw7ZR0
    • Adam Grant - The potential of your potential https://link.chtbl.com/eUA4IJCh
    • Gina Chick - Don’t fight life https://link.chtbl.com/Ginachick
    • Pat Cummins - Love, loss & Life https://link.chtbl.com/o_uN8l_H
    • Martin “Rac” Heppell - The other F word…FAILURE

    📺 Things to watch

    • Tim Minchin - Play it Safe https://bit.ly/44PnJc4
    • Moana https://bit.ly/4bJZyy2

    🎧 Things to listen to

    • How i work - Amantha Imber, https://bit.ly/3WNGxXw

    📖 Things to read

    • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy - https://bit.ly/3wE7nqm

    🛒 Things to buy

    • The Resilience Project & Dr Em’s - 6 Month Wellbeing Journal https://bit.ly/3K8Z9cK

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  • IMPERFIX: Dr. Kiran Martin - Leadership
    May 17 2024

    We mean no disrespect to any of our other guests, but when Hugh says that Dr. Kiran Martin, is the most impressive person he has ever met, it’s hard not to agree.

    Dr. Kiran Martin is the founder of ASHA in India. It’s a not for profit, that for over 35 years, has provided healthcare and education to millions of people living in slums in India.

    In this clip, Dr Kiran tells us of the time she decided to wash the feet of a Dalit woman (an ‘untouchable’ in the caste system of India) in order to demonstrate humility. And it was this moment of true leadership that lead to a feet washing movement throughout ASHA, breaking down caste barriers in the process.

    You can learn more, or support Dr. Kiran Martin and ASHA’s work here. https://bit.ly/44Fl1WP.

    To listen to the full episode with Dr. Kiran Martin, click here https://link.chtbl.com/OjRxhECI

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  • Reece Conca - Tackling Male Infertility
    May 12 2024

    All too often when talking about infertility, we only tell one side of the story. Traditionally in the public discourse, it has very much fallen into the category of a ‘women’s issue’. However, as our guest this week Reece Conca can all too painfully attest, 40% of infertility issues are actually male factor related.

    Reece Conca is a former Australian Rules Footballer, who played over 150 games for Richmond and Freemantle.

    When Reece and his partner Bell were finding it difficult to conceive, it took them far too long to discover that Reece has a condition called Azoospermia, which effects 1% of men - a condition where in Reece had no sperm in his semen.

    In this Vulnerabiltea House, Reece speaks openly and honestly about the physical and emotional toll of a fertility journey he is very much still on, the hormone injections, the surgeries and much, much more.

    To follow Annabelle and Reece on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@annabelleandreece

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amazing perspective we all need to take on

absolutely loved this episode.
thank you thank you thank you
such a great view and backed by science.
one more embrace

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Ben Crowe is great value 🤚

I got so much out of this 2-part podcast. All the usual good humoured banter and honest vulnerability from Hugh, Josh and Ryan and very useful insights and tools from Ben - so good I had to take notes 🤚Thank you

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Love it so so much!!!

super helpful for understanding myself and the people I'm surrounded by in everyday life situations 🤩 seriously INCREDIBLE!!!

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My favourite podcast

Not often you find something so honest and relatable that can have you crying, crying with laughter and pondering your thoughts all in the same minute. I tell everyone about The Imperfects and EVERYONE I’ve told have fallen in love too.

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yeeewwww

amazing stuff boys very well done and also very compelling love your work lads

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I always look forward to Mondays

I always look forward to Mondays when the next podcast drops. Content is always relatable and delivered in such a way how can people not be more comfortable in talking about their vulnerabilities 🤩

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My favourite podcast

Brilliant stories. So helpful. I love the vulnerabilitea house and hearing Dr Em revisiting past episodes. I am so glad I found this podcast.

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amazing, well worth a listen

so so so good, worth a listen, amazing story, grant has been thru so much

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