Lena Dunham, acclaimed writer-director-star of HBO and Sky Atlantic's Girls and the award-winning movie Tiny Furniture, displays her unique powers of observation, wisdom, and humour in this exceptional collection of essays.
"If I could take what I've learned and make one menial job easier for you, or prevent you from having the kind of sex where you feel you must keep your sneakers on in case you want to run away during the act, then every misstep of mine was worthwhile. I'm already predicting my future shame at thinking I had anything to offer you, but also my future glory in having stopped you from trying an expensive juice cleanse or thinking that it was your fault when the person you are dating suddenly backs away, intimidated by the clarity of your personal mission here on Earth. No, I am not a sexpert, a psychologist, or a dietician. I am not a mother of three or the owner of a successful hosiery franchise. But I am a girl with a keen interest in having it all, and what follows are hopeful dispatches from the frontlines of that struggle."
©2014 Lena Dunham (P)2014 HarperCollins Publishers Limited
Advance praise for Not That Kind of Girl:
"It's not Lena Dunham's candour that makes me gasp. Rather, it's her writing - which is full of surprises where you least expect them. This is a fine, subversive book." David Sedaris
"Always funny, sometimes wrenching, these essays are a testament to the creative wonder that is Lena Dunham." Judy Blume
"Dunham's writing is just as smart, honest, sophisticated, dangerous, and charming as her work on ‘Girls'. Its essential quality is a kind of joyful super-awareness: of herself, the world, the human. Reading her makes you glad to be in the world, and glad that she's in it with you." George Saunders
"Very few women have become famous for being who they actually are, nuanced and imperfect. When honesty happens, it's usually couched in self-ridicule or self-help. Dunham doesn't apologise like that - she simply tells her story as if it might be interesting. The result is shocking and radical because it is utterly familiar. Not That Kind of Girl is hilarious, artful, and staggeringly intimate; I read it shivering with recognition." Miranda July
An introspective look into the life of Lena Dunham through a collection of lists, short stories and personal essays. Sometimes funny, sometimes sad, always honest.
This girl isn't a feminist in any sense of the word. She isn't even a liberal feminist. I find her nothing more than a promiscuous, vulgar, entitled, self serving prat. If I didn't feel fractionally sorry for her due to her low self esteem my review would have been worse.
I like the honesty, I like the tone and I like that this book is a sequence of events and yet not sequential. Lena seems like a friend who I have known forever rather than someone I have never and am unlikely to meet.
This book gave me a lot of happiness as I lulled around my life listening. It was a perfect balance of honesty funny and serious and is terrifically well written and made better by hearing Lena tell her stories.
Such a gift when someone shares with such raw honesty in a bio; not to mention wonderful esoteric, detailed recollections of times passes. I'm older than Lena, and I loved this insight in to a young, creative trail blazer. And Lena, as for "sun shine stealers? " they're scattered everywhere ! ;) x
I enjoyed this and can definitely see where the inspiration from Girls comes from. Lena sounds as though she could be a difficult person to be around at times- very dramatic. The chapter on 'body' was a bit tedious- no one wants to hear pages and pages of caloric intake, though the banality was part of her story.
engagingly confronting and full of over sharing. listened to it in a matter of days which is saying something as I have an 8 month old and alone time is scarce. didn't want to put it down.
Great book! Loved that Lena Dunham was reading it herself. Funny/awkward and cringy stories. Amazing! You need to read it!
"Alternate title: my awkward sexual history"
Nope: I thought this book would explore other themes (career, friendship, family) - in a mindy kaling-bio type way. instead i was disappointed to get one sexual stop after another. Each designed to make my jaw drop a little more than the last. Lena is definitely funny- indisputable, but after an hour or two or three, I am no longer amused.
I'm a fan of Girls so my expectations were high. I just didn't get it. I bought the book on audible and parts were torture. Listening to Lena read through days of dieting food was one of my lowest points. I'm still a fan of Girls but would steer clear of another book - particularly On Audible. Shame as I've always admired her ballsy approach.
"Such a disappointment."
I'm a fan of Dunham and of Girls and I expected so much more from this book. Like another reviewer I was disappointed to find no discussion of her creative process, no reflections on writing in general, just simply nothing about the thing most people respect her for - which is her work! What this book is is the confessional journal of a nausiatingly privileged twenty-something's mental pathologies and to be honest, it felt like having coffee with that friend who just bangs on and on about their first world problems and doesn't filter a single thought that comes out of their mouth.
As other reviewers have stated, the lowest point is a section in which she reads an old food diary, listing everything she ate along with each item's caloric value. When she encounters an item for which she is uncertain of the caloric value, she does an exaggerated upward inflection that had me on the edge of throwing my computer out the window. This list goes on for an excruciatingly leisurely fifteen minutes in this audiobook. FIFTEEN MINUTES. She doesn't even attempt to justify or explain the list's presence in the book, or even to analyse it, which perhaps could have drawn something interesting from it. She just sticks it in like a kid who forgot to bring anything for Show And Tell. The childish egomania of the thing was bewildering.
The number one bane of feminist creatives is that we are so rarely asked about our work, our thoughts, our minds – instead we are asked about fashion and dieting, boyfriends and sex etc etc. I just cannot fathom why Dunham, who is a skilled writer and an outspoken feminist, chose to use the opportunity of writing her own book to fill it with the sort of banal nonsense that any Glamour Magazine interview would have asked her. What a waste of time.
Just a boring life story, nothing out of the ordinary, interesting or funny.. Feels like it was written by someone proving to themselves that they can write.
"Obviously listen if you are a fan of Girls"
Maybe. I love Lena, so am intrigued by anything she has to say, but was a little disappointed by the lack of excitement in the story, but I love love her and did really enjoy it, an easy listen.
Yes I hope her next book is more juicy. The scene where she reads out her calories was too long, although I got her point.
Where she explains how she first made it.
"Awful, self indulgent, self obsessed drivel"
I have really ambivalent feelings towards Lena. She is clearly blessed with a great writing talent but this is just a rehash of the only thing she seems capable of writing about. Herself. I
I wasn't really enjoying it. I was expecting someting totaly different. Too boring, stuff she learned were a but crap- I didn't learn anything useful from her.
Peeping Toms? Sex starved?
Very disappointing. All over the place biography with very little depth unless you are interested in someone who has very little self-respect's sex life.And it's American.
Her; "I'm a rebel- just for the sake of it, shallowness."
It would need to be put in some sort of logical order and need some interesting content or perspectives injected into it.
Avoid if you have any brain cells that need exercise.
"It's Okay, but I expected a bit more."
I'm a big fan of the show Girls, so thought this might be similarly entertaining, but I found it a bit disappointing. There's literally a whole chapter where she lists off what she ate for a summer. The first half was interesting, and her writing is decent, but I just found it annoying and overwrought after a while.
"Great but with a lot of negativity "
Well read, a lot of issues discussed and some negativity. Not an uplifting book. Great if you are a fan.
I love Lena Dunham but I found this a little too self-indulgent and frothy. Didn't lend itself well to the audiobook format being non-linear and containing various lists etc. I think I would have preferred this one as an actual book.
really fantastic insight into a young woman's mind. I found it completely entertaining and was utterly disappointed when it ended, so much so I read it again!
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