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Secure Relating
- Holding Your Own in an Insecure World
- Narrated by: Ann Kelley
- Length: 12 hrs and 30 mins
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Experienced mental health professionals and hosts of the Therapist Uncensored podcast offer a groundbreaking new clinical perspective that integrates modern attachment theory, relational neuroscience, and current cultural context to create a hopeful framework for deeper and more permanent change, growth and connection in all types of relationships.
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